Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Strange Success with Gratitude & PW

**Posted by DC** 12/03/2016 11:24 pm

So for those that don't know my story, my ex husband (not the man I'm trying to manifest) had been acting like a bully. He told me he was taking me to court because of the kids schedule. He wanted the schedule changed so that he didn't have to dish out a dime for the kids though I have them a large portion of the time, and pay for their clothes, school supplies, etc. I tried using PW on him, and got him to tell me he decided not to do so...no court papers came. At the beginning of each month I would PW him to get him to pay his child support. Like clockwork, the little bit of money he does pay me started coming in without me asking...and on time without me even having to remind him. About three weeks ago, I started writing down in my gratitude journal that I was so happy and grateful that I could lovingly release all ties to him. I found out yesterday that he lost his job but still insisted on paying child support. But, this leaves him in a financial bind and he won't be able to legally pursue anything. Thank you universe!!!!

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**Posted by DC** 12/03/2016 11:32 pm

Oh, and I have been doing a list of positive aspects for him too...and lately, he's sweet as pie. If the kids are with him, he'll send me pictures of them playing, and reassures me they are doing well with random texts. We did not at all speak previously.

**Posted by emmiline** 12/04/2016 2:17 am

Thanks for sharing DC, im sorry for what you went through but i am so relieved that you took stock of the situation with the PW technique and practicing gratitude, it is definitly a solution for a great many problems .

**Posted by lalalovely** 12/04/2016 4:04 am

Wow that's so great that you have been manifesting this positive kind of relationship with him keep it up !

**Posted by aligemini** 12/04/2016 12:41 pm

The universe certainly works in mysterious ways, as you have proved. Well done for the way that you handled him. Releasing him with love certainly worked, and a lesson for all of us. It does appear that when you do that, you then get positivity from that person

**Posted by DC** 12/04/2016 3:58 pm

Thank you ladies. I know that there are so many possibilities as to processes and methods to bring good things into our lives and I have tried many. The positive aspects, gratitude, and PW together seems to be yielding the best results for me.

**Posted by lildreamer** 12/05/2016 7:36 am

DC, this is great! And it helps me with my situation; since I'm dealing with an ex and our child, and right now no child support (but he is paying another bill). I'd like to ask; the list of positive aspects you made of him? Was it a list of things you *already* observe are positive about him; or attributes you *want* him to have? Because I have listed all the things I think are good about my ex that I appreciate; but there are some traits I'd like him to exhibit that he hasn't;so they aren't on the list. I hope that's clear. I also read a gratitude list out loud every morning of everything in my life I'm grateful for that I can remember. Thank you, and keep it up!

**Posted by DC** 12/05/2016 9:53 am

Every night before I go to bed, I do my list of positive aspects (you're supposed to do it once a day, based on what Abraham says, until you see the change). I write down the positive aspect, think of a time when that person displayed that particular quality, and feel how good that felt for a few seconds. I allow myself to relive those moments as I write them down. I had been with my ex for close to 15 years so I have a lot of examples to draw upon. Even if it was when you were first dating, you can deliberately choose to concentrate on an instance where he was kind, generous, considerate, etc. All you need is one memory to draw upon. You can make up the quality you want, but drawing from memory helps greatly because you have irrefutable evidence that the person acted in that manner at least once so you can build your belief and perception from there.