Ok thank you

Still at a loss about the inception technique would someone be so kind to explain again (happy)

bambi wrote:

Yes, I did it at night before going to sleep. I go to bed late so I know they both are sleep most nights especially during the weekday, not so much on the weekend. I also do it during the day/afternoon when I have a free time, but not always everyday at a certain time.

For the man from my past I did 95% PW. I did BWD a few times just to amp up things. When he sees me he can barely contain himself. He often calls me now saying sexual things but he is modest with it, because he said I have become his weakness, and he refuses to give his power all to me! But, in the bedroom he acts like an animal.

The current man I do both PW and BWD equally. And the passion is off the chain!

In the movie Cobb had a tense relationship with his father. Which sounds like your man had a tense relationship with his mother and ex.
But, they did not play on or use the tense relationship because they felt that positive emotion trumps negative emotion every time. They believe people yearn to be reconciled with a loved one. So, it is important to use positive emotions.
In your case, positive emotion is the part of loving you. Hearing him say to you that he loves when you mother him, it makes him feel secure ( which counteracts the negative of his acceptance/self-worth issues) 
Or he loves when you kiss him, hug him, or cook for him, whatever you have heard him say before in his own language, it will reach his subconscience faster.

So, focus on what he wants for his life? For his future? For a relationship?
Not focusing on anything negative, the past, or any issue you have had.
Incorporate what you want as well. The positive love energy. And then put in he misses you or he loves you or wants to marry you or whatever you want from there.
That is how I would do it.

So glad I read this, definitely bookmarking!

So I've only been in the physical presence of my man once. We had an amazing connection! From what I gathered, he's very focused and busy and ambitious with his work, however despite all this him and his father aren't speaking at the moment because he's working towards becoming an astronaut (wow right?!) and his father doesn't approve (crazy!) He's also older than me 37 and I'm 23 so maybe he's unsure about the age gap. How would I word these in my next PW session?

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Forgot about this thread. My mind is so blown again. I'm really foinf to need to do this.

What a great post! I've just discovered this post and my oh my, this blew my mind off. Thanks for the amazing explanation Bambi, and also for my fellow ladies who contributed into pouring their thoughts here. Kisses.

Thanks for sharing Bambi!! Did you use seperate visualizations and do the techniques daily on both of the guys? I really liked this perspective and the way you put this made me feel more concentrated on my visualizations thank you so much

TLC wrote:

I pump up my vibration by listening to music, too, before doing PW/BTW. Sometimes I listen to the music that my ex and I used to hear if it's not making me sad at that moment -otherwise it's music that makes me happy. I have a special playlist for that.

Sometimes I start doing PW on people I really, really love (my children, good friends) to intensify the love feeling and get it flowing before doing PW on my ex. 

I started 'working' on my ex on the 27th of Dec. He actually phoned me on the 31st to wish me happy New Year.

Note to self: I think I have to stop calling him my ex though...I think it contradicts my new reality

It does. Call him your man, because that's what he is!