Oasiscalm wrote:

THOU SHALL NOT FOCUS ON THE UNWANTED.

What does that mean, remember when Bashar said "circumstances don't matter" and when Neville said "turn your eye to what you see". Stop focusing on what you don't want to see.

It means all the energy you are using to focus on him blocking you/ ignoring you/ having a new girlfriend/ not telling you what you want to hear, needs to be redirected. You need to find a way to stop allowing the unwanted reality penetrating into your mind.

I'm realistic, I do know that the current reality has a way of constantly slapping you in the face, but it's actually you who allows it to keep slapping you. Find a way to stop it.

Get yourself a mantra for the moments when the unwanted presents itself to you. So when you are going about your day and thoughts about him and some other girl or that he is still blocking you pop up in your man, quickly engage your mantra to turn things around and stop the momentum.

So ask yourself are you ready to turn you focus back to your end desire and ignore your current reality?

 
OC you never let us down with your wonderful posts!! Thank you sweetie!!💞👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

collie wrote:

OasisCalm...I think I manifested your post. I came on now to give an update and it was the reminder I needed. Others in this forum have told me the same but I needed to read it again.
I think maybe we should print out all the stuff that helps us stay on track or get up again when we are down. Put it in arms reach.
Any ideas for mantras?

Great post. Thanks
 

SAME HERE!!!   thank you for posting

This is so perfect.  I've been trying to remind myself of this very thing the last few weeks and it has definitely helped my state of mind.

This is so true. 

Oasiscalm wrote:

THOU SHALL NOT FOCUS ON THE UNWANTED.

What does that mean, remember when Bashar said "circumstances don't matter" and when Neville said "turn your eye to what you see". Stop focusing on what you don't want to see.

It means all the energy you are using to focus on him blocking you/ ignoring you/ having a new girlfriend/ not telling you what you want to hear, needs to be redirected. You need to find a way to stop allowing the unwanted reality penetrating into your mind.

I'm realistic, I do know that the current reality has a way of constantly slapping you in the face, but it's actually you who allows it to keep slapping you. Find a way to stop it.

Get yourself a mantra for the moments when the unwanted presents itself to you. So when you are going about your day and thoughts about him and some other girl or that he is still blocking you pop up in your man, quickly engage your mantra to turn things around and stop the momentum.

So ask yourself are you ready to turn you focus back to your end desire and ignore your current reality?

Thank you for your post OC!  You are the best!  :-)

OasisCalm...I think I manifested your post. I came on now to give an update and it was the reminder I needed. Others in this forum have told me the same but I needed to read it again.
I think maybe we should print out all the stuff that helps us stay on track or get up again when we are down. Put it in arms reach.
Any ideas for mantras?

Great post. Thanks
 

Yes