Cheriesymone wrote:

Marz, so good to see you back on here.. Missed you. xoxo

I missed you too, love! I will try not to disappear again this time! Life gets in the way yanno? ;)
 

Jag123 wrote:

This is an absolutely wonderful post.  Like Abraham Hicks say  "you never get it done, and you never get it wrong". It doesn't matter how many times it takes you will get there!

Me and my boy have had a habit of doing the backward and forward dance like you describe.  Each time, I have got over the pain of the seperation I realise that it is a wonderful constrasting situation for fixing me and my own beliefs.  Each time we come back together it gets better.  The time between seperation and uniting becomes smaller and the reunions becomes sweeter.  I suppose it's a bit of a refining process.

You are an inspiration and timely reminder that we get what we believe we are.  Instead of wasting energy on why he has done this or that, I am  returning my focus back to myself and who I need to be in the best version of that relationship.

Thank you so much!

Thank you for your kind words. That means a lot to me
I suppose it really is a refining process. But it does become so overwhelmingly difficult sometimes. This is the first time in life that this has happened to me - where my feelings of love for the man just won't go anywhere! It's something to rejoice, particularly once we've finally worked things out.
 

emmiline wrote:

Hi sis! How have you been!?
Thanks for stopping by and updating us. Big hugs and love the advice!

Hi honey! I'm good! Hanging in there
 

Hey ladies! A lot of new people here, not sure if anyone remembers me
I'm the girl that manifested her ex back and fucked it all up all over again - then fucked it up again and again and again.
So, I stopped. Yes, I still do the technique while we aren't together and I miss him so badly that sometimes I feel like I'm going to die. This is when I go full fledged into the technique, feeling the feelings of love, hearing him, feeling him, even crying at some points. It's lovely and healing for me (not only that, it yielded results in the past).
But I also know that I'm still not ready for it, and I have to fix me first.
I'm in the process of working on myself, my life, my finances, my health, my body, my self-esteem - in other words, creating a phenomenal me and having a happy, cultivated life. I want to be busy, happy and okay so that when he does come back, things will be different - I will strictly rely on myself and the technique for us to grow and create the relationship that I've always envisioned.
But for now I need to create the "me" I've always envisioned.
So, ladies, ask yourself if you are truly ready to have your love again - or if you need to put more of the focus on you and how beautiful and incredible you are. 
Big hugs to everyone! Miss you guys! Can't believe the holidays are here!

-Marz