A test or maybe just an echo. You were trying so hard for so long, stuff is going to come up for a while. I remember ages ago, after a guy I really liked broke things off with me I kept seeing signs of him and having dreams about him. I even saw the handle of his email address on a licence plate once. It was a combo of his initials and birthdate so not unlikely to pop up but still it was disconcerting to see. That breakup was hard to get through because it really didn't make sense to me at all, and he was drop dead gorgeous, like a mannequin come to life. The pretty ones always hurt the most. I'm usually the one who does the breaking up so it wasn't something I had any experience with either. In retrospect, I think he was a little autistic, which is probably why I couldn't make sense of his reasoning. He didn't really relate to people all that well and didn't have many friends. He's still single now so I think he's just not good at the relationship thing. 

LightReading wrote:

Are you me? 

6 years of back and forth too... The confusion... the thoughts... I understand, girl. 

I waver between trying to move on and wanting reconciliation (just an apology/end on good terms). 

I wish I could help... Just know you're not alone!

Thank you so much for replying! Hugs!!

Just like you ladies, I had also decided to stop using the techniques on my main target. And as I'm finally moving on, here comes the dreams and reminders.
It's frustrating but I feel like it's a "test".  I can't remember exactly where I learned this but I know it's some aspect of LOA where things appear to us again (usually negatively) just as we're moving on, to see if we're fully over it. For example, here we are changing our outlook, becoming detached, maybe even finding a new guy who could be better for us, when suddenly thoughts of them appear out of nowhere.
We could easily go back to the same old cycle of missing them, feeling upset,and crying. We could even begin resenting them because here we are finally moving on, and they have the audacity to be in our heads again ?😂
It's like a wicked game and it can be very frustrating.

I feel like it's a last minute test where we need to tell the universe, "No, we're serious about changing our lives this time, we're not going back"
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Then again, some say it means the person could truly be near.  I'm definitely no expert.

I have tried for weeks (maybe months) to get him out of my head. I stopped doing the technique on him because I figured I needed to be done with him once and for all.

Today he slowly crossed my mind when a song came on. I disregarded it. However when I was having sex with someone else thoughts of his started flooding my brain so much to the point where I started crying and every song that played on shuffle was some reminder of him.

I've cut the cord many times, haven't reached out and I'm actually happier than I have ever been. I decided 6 years of back and forth was too much and honestly I'm just ready to not care anymore. A psychic even told me I would never figure out why things went left the way they did, but that he was basically angry with something related to me.

I just don't know...