You are radiating good vibrations. Perhaps others reach out because we don't give a fuck about them. Hence, there is no resistance, longing, negativity, etc.
A friend of mine whom I told in October not to call me till she books an appointment to see a therapist because she has some serious issues and I couldn't deal with the negativity almost every single day. A week after this she texted saying that I am keeping conditions instead of helping her, she said goodbye forever, etc. She didn't see that I was actually helping her since years. I didn't respond. 
And just now, few minutes ago, she called me, I couldn't receive so she texted that she has booked an appointment.
So see, things do happen.
Relax. You are actually doing well and your methods are without a doubt working on your target. Keep it up.

I agree, very good signs that you are sending out the right signals. Keep doing what you are doing, because you are getting there

Yes, they all come out running when you are in a good place. This is a good sign that it's working.

My focus is only on one person. I don't even have the energy or interest to focus on other men, not even for validation. Yet, men from yearsss ago will literally find me, and contact me. Last night I got a call from a guy I only had phone conversations with, over 6 years ago, but he begged my cousin for my number. He even told me all this...and there is another, whom I was once on love with. Why is this again? Good sign?