DC wrote:

I don't think you are doing anything to hurt anyone. It's actually really sweet that you are trying to help. I would approach it with PW and the Neville technique. In the book Prayer, the Art of Believing, Neville talks about seeing someone in the end result and congratulating them for the results. I personally used to be overweight and lost a great deal of weight and it was nice to have support. As long as you're not pestering the person in real life and just offering support vibrationally, sending love, I don't think that's manipulation. Seeing the best version of that person, healthy and happy is a great thing.

Hey love,

Thanks so much for responding, congrats on your weight loss! It's really not easy to do. So you think I should just use Neville's technique and not Lanie's? Or as long as my intentions are good, its fine to use PW?

Hey guys,

So recently I've been very fed up with a family member's total lack of care for their r health and I've wanted to help them get their health in order for a long time. We were told not too long ago that if they didn't they would need major  surgery within a few years. I really want to use the technique to get them to start caring for themselves and taking their life seriously because it's painful and scary to watch and I want them to live their life to the fullest. I'm also wrestling with my conscience because it feels a little bit manipulative to use it on family. What do you guys think?