Thank you, I will have to try this out. 

Indigo wrote:

wanderlusting wrote:

I have read PW several times and I think I am still getting tied up in how to go about the visualization process. Some concerns I have are where to put your desires; hearing him saying them or hearing yourself say to him what you are wanting to happen or to hear. For example, let's say that your guy is anti-relationship and has commitment issues. Do you envision him saying that he wants a relationship again or do you envision yourself telling him that he wants a relationship again? Also, how can you make a guy overcome negative feelings towards you and having a relationship with you?

 

If I were in your situation I would leave all the relationship drama out of the visualization and just have him tell me

things like I love you, I miss you and I can't live without you.  Then you can repeat those same things back to him

but in reverse - you love me, you miss me and you can't live without me.  And tell him anything else you would

want him to know.

I have read PW several times and I think I am still getting tied up in how to go about the visualization process. Some concerns I have are where to put your desires; hearing him saying them or hearing yourself say to him what you are wanting to happen or to hear. For example, let's say that your guy is anti-relationship and has commitment issues. Do you envision him saying that he wants a relationship again or do you envision yourself telling him that he wants a relationship again? Also, how can you make a guy overcome negative feelings towards you and having a relationship with you?