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1/29/2017 4:31 pm

So the balance on my savings is now 77.77 and I've never been happier. I'm taking this as a sign.

1/26/2017 7:30 pm

I've been seeing the numbers 333 and 555 a lot now saw 444.

1/25/2017 10:39 pm

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Justaspeckintheuniverse wrote:

So a guy said hi to me yesterday and I didn't even notice. A friend pointed it out to me. It's frustrating when you are so deep in your thoughts you never pay attention to people around you.

You are only concentrating on the "ex" and you must let go if you want to attract good things -- including new men.  When my man and I were broken up I dated up a storm!  I even went out with a famous celebrity.  Girl, no man should stand in the way of your life and happiness!

I'm trying. The last guy wanted too much too fast. I liked him, but he kept pressuring me. I dislike being pressured. The guys I talk to are too thirsty. They frighten me. I'm painfully shy and I want to be friends first. I wish guys would be patient like my ex was. I'm not good at talking to people. They talk to me. I stop talking to a guy when he makes me feel pressured, because quite frankly it's not worth it. I want to date, but not if I feel like I'm being forced to do things I don't want to.
 

1/25/2017 8:58 pm

Justaspeckintheuniverse wrote:

So a guy said hi to me yesterday and I didn't even notice. A friend pointed it out to me. It's frustrating when you are so deep in your thoughts you never pay attention to people around you.

You are only concentrating on the "ex" and you must let go if you want to attract good things -- including new men.  When my man and I were broken up I dated up a storm!  I even went out with a famous celebrity.  Girl, no man should stand in the way of your life and happiness!

1/25/2017 8:57 pm

Indigo wrote:

Justaspeckintheuniverse wrote:

My love and I were together for 3 years. We were engaged. He is my love and will always be my love. I know he loves me. I have been feeling sadness and doubt these few days which bothers me. One thing is he has a gift he made for me over a year he refuses to give me. He says he won't give it to me because he keeps it to remind him of his failure as a man. Of our relationship. He broke up with me because I was afraid to grow up. I'm still working hard on that as well as loa. It's an ongoing process. He grew up faster than I did since he is far more experienced. He said to step up my game. He said he really wanted it to be me when he was engaged. He then said he didn't know why he said that. I think because he really wants to be with me. Some advice and support is appreciated.

My advice -  Re-write your story because this one is not a good story.  An ungiven gift is not a gift, and a man

who denies you a gift that he supposedly made for you doesn't deserve the gift of "YOU."   Don't allow this be your

story.  I can tell from your lack of self-esteem that you haven't read Lanie's PP (Book 3).  I would recommend that

you read that along with anything else that will empower you to not accept being treated with such disregard.  By

anyone.
 

Great advice Indigo!  :-)
 

1/24/2017 3:43 pm

So a guy said hi to me yesterday and I didn't even notice. A friend pointed it out to me. It's frustrating when you are so deep in your thoughts you never pay attention to people around you.

1/23/2017 9:29 pm

We started out as just friends and it was so nice. Very gradually we fell in love. He was patient with me. Other men don't seem to understand.

1/23/2017 7:11 pm

We're still friends, but I haven't spoken with him since last year, since I am doing NC. We have a lot in common which was why I fell for him among him being patient with me and not rushing me like other men do. We have the same humor which is a bit unusual and twisted. We're both very stubborn and proud. My spirit guide told me I can be friends with him, but it's been so long I've spoken with him I feel anxiety talking to him. We're both psychic. That was the thing with him. He understood me on a deeper level. He often knew what I was thinking when I was upset, so he helped me. I know I made the breakup happen. I even tried to break up with him because I felt it coming. He eventually broke it off with me. I felt it best we part ways at the time and I honestly don't feel ready for him now which is likely why I have anxiety over the thought of even talking to him. I'm autisic. We both are. I've spoken with other men, but they are so pushy and scare me. They want too much too fast.

1/23/2017 6:19 pm

Justaspeckintheuniverse wrote:

My love and I were together for 3 years. We were engaged. He is my love and will always be my love. I know he loves me. I have been feeling sadness and doubt these few days which bothers me. One thing is he has a gift he made for me over a year he refuses to give me. He says he won't give it to me because he keeps it to remind him of his failure as a man. Of our relationship. He broke up with me because I was afraid to grow up. I'm still working hard on that as well as loa. It's an ongoing process. He grew up faster than I did since he is far more experienced. He said to step up my game. He said he really wanted it to be me when he was engaged. He then said he didn't know why he said that. I think because he really wants to be with me. Some advice and support is appreciated.

My advice -  Re-write your story because this one is not a good story.  An ungiven gift is not a gift, and a man

who denies you a gift that he supposedly made for you doesn't deserve the gift of "YOU."   Don't allow this be your

story.  I can tell from your lack of self-esteem that you haven't read Lanie's PP (Book 3).  I would recommend that

you read that along with anything else that will empower you to not accept being treated with such disregard.  By

anyone.
 

1/23/2017 11:49 am

My love and I were together for 3 years. We were engaged. He is my love and will always be my love. I know he loves me. I have been feeling sadness and doubt these few days which bothers me. One thing is he has a gift he made for me over a year he refuses to give me. He says he won't give it to me because he keeps it to remind him of his failure as a man. Of our relationship. He broke up with me because I was afraid to grow up. I'm still working hard on that as well as loa. It's an ongoing process. He grew up faster than I did since he is far more experienced. He said to step up my game. He said he really wanted it to be me when he was engaged. He then said he didn't know why he said that. I think because he really wants to be with me. Some advice and support is appreciated.

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