DeDe651 wrote:

He gave me money for a round trip! I will actually be paying for it myself. I might get a rental car too just to be on the safe side.

Also he called me and said the reason why he had been acting a little funny was because he was starting to like me a bit to much 🙄. I told him that I am not the type of girl that stuff works on. Nor will I stand for being treated like that. I haven't talked to him since, but I've decided I will stick with PW and limited contact until the ticket is booked and the itinerary is set.

Well, it sounds like your PW is working. Just don't try to start a potential conflict because it sounds like you're a little too aggressive. Just relax, do PW, take the trip and stay positive.

Hi DeDe651, take the trip and see from there 

Don't sabotage a reunion between you two because you're upset. Forgive him and go see him.

I've been using PW on a new guy now. I've done it at least every other day since we have been talking. I visualize him saying the standard phrases from Lanie's books.

He is someone that I know from college and by his own admission, he had been checking me out since then. We both graduated several years ago. I now live about 500 miles from where we went to school at. He is still in the state.

The first week and a half of us talking the guy was VERY attentive, FaceTimeing me all the time and texting all day. Telling me he didn't want to fall for me or end up loving me. However over the past few days or so he's been acting a little standoffish and straight up ignoring me some days. Considering that I had to cut the cord with him TWICE in five days, I just figured maybe it was a sign to leave him alone. When men start acting like that I retreat and detach.

Last night I sent him a mental message that I was completely backing off of him and whenever he decided to send me the money for the plane ticket, we could go from there but until then I was done trying to talk to him.

Ladies, I woke up this morning to see that he had sent me money to purchase the ticket to come and see him. This is after he ignored me last night! I haven't responded back yet because I honestly feel like with his recent behavior he hasn't earned my company or time. To top it off he also responded this morning to a post I had made on my Facebook with me and another guy hanging out.

Advice please?!