DeDe651 wrote:
Indigo wrote:
DeDe651 wrote:
I think the majoc is a little bit of us finally getting together to spend sometime! I've started NC cause I'm afraid I'm liking him a little too much. For example, I find myself getting annoyed he read my text and never responded and he also hasn't been initiating contact like he used to. It's strange cause when I talk to him he seems into me and I ser the PW working, but then he blows cold.
I feel like I should keep going with it but I'm hesitant because idk how he feels about me.
Lanie covers NC in detail in her latest book she
explains the purpose of NC and when to use it. You still have a couple of weeks to study up
so you'll know how to deal with him when you get there.
This is perfect! It's nice to have some guidelines. I kinda was just going with whatever lol this is very helpful
Also I had to remove the link in my reply because I have few too many posts
I'm sorry I had to edit the forum because of about 1000 scam posts. ARRRGGGHHHHH! I had to change the number of posts you have before you can post a link. :-(
Indigo wrote:
DeDe651 wrote:
This is perfect! It's nice to have some guidelines. I kinda was just going with whatever lol this is very helpful
Also I had to remove the link in my reply because I have few too many posts
I refer to PP (Bk 3) quite often. Especially the part where she says we already have what they can't live without
(vag) and so we don't really need to do anything extra (besides look cute and all of that), just stop chasing after
them, throwing ourselves at them, acting desperate and other dumbness. Just be cool and they will do what
WE WANT them to do and treat us how WE WANT to be treated. Most importantly establish an emotional
bond with them B4 we give it up too quick and easy. That in conjunction with the meditations.
I have to remember that. I think falling back and focusing on me while sending the messages mentally will be a hell of a combination!
DeDe651 wrote:
This is perfect! It's nice to have some guidelines. I kinda was just going with whatever lol this is very helpful
Also I had to remove the link in my reply because I have few too many posts
I refer to PP (Bk 3) quite often. Especially the part where she says we already have what they can't live without
(vag) and so we don't really need to do anything extra (besides look cute and all of that), just stop chasing after
them, throwing ourselves at them, acting desperate and other dumbness. Just be cool and they will do what
WE WANT them to do and treat us how WE WANT to be treated. Most importantly establish an emotional
bond with them B4 we give it up too quick and easy. That in conjunction with the meditations.
Indigo wrote:
DeDe651 wrote:
I think the majoc is a little bit of us finally getting together to spend sometime! I've started NC cause I'm afraid I'm liking him a little too much. For example, I find myself getting annoyed he read my text and never responded and he also hasn't been initiating contact like he used to. It's strange cause when I talk to him he seems into me and I ser the PW working, but then he blows cold.
I feel like I should keep going with it but I'm hesitant because idk how he feels about me.
Lanie covers NC in detail in her latest book she
explains the purpose of NC and when to use it. You still have a couple of weeks to study up
so you'll know how to deal with him when you get there.
This is perfect! It's nice to have some guidelines. I kinda was just going with whatever lol this is very helpful
Also I had to remove the link in my reply because I have few too many posts
Blue wrote:
De,
he definitely does think and care about you. PW does work - 100%, every time without fail.
You need to focus on you and as soon as you do, he will be back.
I think I def need to focus on me. Thank you so much Blue 💙
DeDe651 wrote:
I think the majoc is a little bit of us finally getting together to spend sometime! I've started NC cause I'm afraid I'm liking him a little too much. For example, I find myself getting annoyed he read my text and never responded and he also hasn't been initiating contact like he used to. It's strange cause when I talk to him he seems into me and I ser the PW working, but then he blows cold.
I feel like I should keep going with it but I'm hesitant because idk how he feels about me.
Lanie covers NC in detail in her latest book Breakup to Makeup: Getting your "Ex" Back she
explains the purpose of NC and when to use it. You still have a couple of weeks to study up
so you'll know how to deal with him when you get there.
De,
he definitely does think and care about you. PW does work - 100%, every time without fail.
You need to focus on you and as soon as you do, he will be back.
Indigo wrote:
DeDe651 wrote:
Well that was fast! I have been visualizing my target saying, " I'm in love with you." And I also have been responding back in PW "you're falling in love with me." Well on Friday I caught him in a funny compromising situation and instead of acting crazy about it, I laughed with him. After we had our laugh, he sends me a text that says "Lol we're in love now lol" Ladies I couldn't believe it.
My suspicion is that he threw the lol in in case I didn't respond favorably but I also think that this was my visualization finally manifested. I haven't heard from him since but I am keeping up with the meditations. There has been NC on my end because I will be flying out to see him in two weeks. However I can't help but thinking about him over and over. I have to admit that I'm clueless on where to go next. So do I keep using PW or wait for the magic to happen 13 days from now?
IMO, there is no magic w/o PW. What magic is going to happen in 13 days? Are you
talking about the magic from having done PW in the past? Or the magic that's going
to happen when y'all get naked? Why are you doing NC?
I think the majoc is a little bit of us finally getting together to spend sometime! I've started NC cause I'm afraid I'm liking him a little too much. For example, I find myself getting annoyed he read my text and never responded and he also hasn't been initiating contact like he used to. It's strange cause when I talk to him he seems into me and I ser the PW working, but then he blows cold.
I feel like I should keep going with it but I'm hesitant because idk how he feels about me.
DeDe651 wrote:
Well that was fast! I have been visualizing my target saying, " I'm in love with you." And I also have been responding back in PW "you're falling in love with me." Well on Friday I caught him in a funny compromising situation and instead of acting crazy about it, I laughed with him. After we had our laugh, he sends me a text that says "Lol we're in love now lol" Ladies I couldn't believe it.
My suspicion is that he threw the lol in in case I didn't respond favorably but I also think that this was my visualization finally manifested. I haven't heard from him since but I am keeping up with the meditations. There has been NC on my end because I will be flying out to see him in two weeks. However I can't help but thinking about him over and over. I have to admit that I'm clueless on where to go next. So do I keep using PW or wait for the magic to happen 13 days from now?
IMO, there is no magic w/o PW. What magic is going to happen in 13 days? Are you
talking about the magic from having done PW in the past? Or the magic that's going
to happen when y'all get naked? Why are you doing NC?
Well that was fast! I have been visualizing my target saying, " I'm in love with you." And I also have been responding back in PW "you're falling in love with me." Well on Friday I caught him in a funny compromising situation and instead of acting crazy about it, I laughed with him. After we had our laugh, he sends me a text that says "Lol we're in love now lol" Ladies I couldn't believe it.
My suspicion is that he threw the lol in in case I didn't respond favorably but I also think that this was my visualization finally manifested. I haven't heard from him since but I am keeping up with the meditations. There has been NC on my end because I will be flying out to see him in two weeks. However I can't help but thinking about him over and over. I have to admit that I'm clueless on where to go next. So do I keep using PW or wait for the magic to happen 13 days from now?