I don't think manifesting is the problem, it's the maintaining. Like the dns post guy. He has attracted exes multiple times, but can't seem to maintain the relationship for long, so you may need to work on that when you get to that point.

donna89 wrote:

Blue wrote:

I'm not giving you a hard time...I'm just saying we gave you advice so you can always go back and refer to what we said before..

ok fair enough i think online messages can be interpreted the wrong way  i guess i'm frustrated too i read so many success stories and i do keep askin the same thing because i genuinely need your guys help im rly rly rly struggling with this, i just need some inspiration lol and fellow loas to help but i know everyone means well - i just from my point of view have not come across such a situation like mine believe me and its hard to know what i should do. i will carry on the rs but i jus wonder as the sayin goes the universe delivers your highest good and maybe the universe is tryin to tell me somethin that its time to move on but i want to stay strong
  

  
  
I personally haven't dealt with trying to get any exes back.  It's too many men out here for me
to be trippin' about just one dude.  When I'm done with one, that's it for him, I take a short break
and move on to the next one.  Do yourself a favor and read Lanie's books, especially her latest
one, and do the meditations.  As to what Blue stated, all she's saying is that if you already have
a thread going about this same topic (you broke up 3 times can you get him back again), just
continue posting to that same thread instead of starting a new one.  It makes it easier for
everyone, especially you.
  
  
 

I'm not giving you a hard time...I'm just saying we gave you advice so you can always go back and refer to what we said before..

Kinda off-topic but why would he randomly tell you that? Did you ask?
If I bumped into an ex I haven't seen, i wouldn't just randomly declare something like that... unless I still cared  and wanted a reaction from him maybe...
Also, (correct me if I've read it wrong!) after 5 months no contact, you've randomly bumped into him? That sounds like a push in the right direction. I'd count that as a small success .
But back to your topic, I don't think the amount of times broken up should matter . If you stick to the process and you know you'll have him back then you'll have him back.
If you're doubtful and you personally feel like your situation is too tough then it might remain too tough . Work on changing that mindset 💛.

hi i just wondered has anyone actually had any success with a breakup history of more than 3x. is it possible with rs for this to work after 5 months NC my ex told me the other daywhen we bumped into each other  we are done FOREVER ,  its been 3x we cant try again. could we? is this a test from universe or is the universe rly saying nOT AGAIN YOU TOO  lol any advice for me or success tips from anybody whos had same issues. i know i keep doubting this its jus i haven't come across a story or situation as annoyin as mine most peoples its their first breakup with that person  lol HELP PLS X