Minami wrote:

I love listening to subliminals for self love..I think it's great

Also..love meditating into nothingness just thinking of nothing..doing all this for myself 💖

 
Lanie's Powerful You meditation is a good one too!

I love listening to subliminals for self love..I think it's great

Also..love meditating into nothingness just thinking of nothing..doing all this for myself 💖

Indigo wrote:

Blue wrote:

I've done the meditation a lot, yet I still feel hurt when it comes to him
  

  
  
Perhaps you don't need to cut the cord.  Have you considered that?
 

Remember no-one can make you feel anything. You choose how you feel.

Cutting the cord is great and I have used it when appropriate 

Starting focusing on focusing on you. Flip the switch and make a resolve to feel good. To think good thought. To feel better feelings. Do all that for you, not to attract him back.

Start practising mental mastery. Use subliminals. Hypnosis. EFT. Seriously throw every tool and process at you mind to get it to focus.

Ultimately yes you feel hurt, but for how long you allow that hurt to guide you is determined by you and only you. Also that is a response for anyone it's applicable to not just you Blue. 😀

lovelychica25 wrote:

I totally get it!
I wish I knew the link so that I could post it on here, but the gist of it is that we have good & bad cord attachments. The good ones are of course the good memories & feelings we have associated with that person & the bad cords are the bad feelings & memories. When you cut the cord, you are cutting the bad cords so that they can't have a negative influence over you or your relationship anymore. For example if he cheated, the cord cutting will help you to break that cord so that you don't keep bringing that up to your current reality. So you are keeping the good cords intact with the meditation. Besides as long as you are doing PW/BWD you will remain on his mind, just without the bad cord baggage....Hope that made sense lol
 
 

  
  
That's some good info Chica! 
  
  

 

Blue wrote:

That's exactly why, actually. I guess I'm afraid that if I do it and he feels like he "lost" me then it'll be a relief for him, you know what I mean?
  

  
  
Don't do it then.  Just keep doing PW/BWD on your man and then next week
we will start doing love spells.  I'm going to have my man LOCKED DOWN!
  
  
 

Blue wrote:

lovelychica25 wrote:

 
Maybe you aren't getting the results you seek in regards to cord cutting bc deep down you might be afraid that cutting the cord will cut your POI out of your life accidentally(which can't happen by the way, unless you make a conscious effort to do so).I was hesitant at first about cutting the cord until I really read up on what it means.Or You could just be apprehensive for another reason & it's creating a block

That's exactly why, actually. I guess I'm afraid that if I do it and he feels like he "lost" me then it'll be a relief for him, you know what I mean?

I totally get it!
I wish I knew the link so that I could post it on here, but the gist of it is that we have good & bad cord attachments. The good ones are of course the good memories & feelings we have associated with that person & the bad cords are the bad feelings & memories. When you cut the cord, you are cutting the bad cords so that they can't have a negative influence over you or your relationship anymore. For example if he cheated, the cord cutting will help you to break that cord so that you don't keep bringing that up to your current reality. So you are keeping the good cords intact with the meditation. Besides as long as you are doing PW/BWD you will remain on his mind, just without the bad cord baggage....Hope that made sense lol
 

Blue wrote:

Indigo wrote:

Blue wrote:

I'm not sure what you mean, Indigo. Sorry for being difficult xo
  

 
I mean that maybe there's no real reason for you to do the CTC
and you're just doing it because you think that it's the thing to
do and that's why you aren't getting the desired result.
  
 

That's true, it very well could be. I do feel I "need" to do it for some reason because so many people recommend doing it but it hasn't worked for me in the long run, but maybe it is something I need to do often.

 
Maybe you aren't getting the results you seek in regards to cord cutting bc deep down you might be afraid that cutting the cord will cut your POI out of your life accidentally(which can't happen by the way, unless you make a conscious effort to do so).I was hesitant at first about cutting the cord until I really read up on what it means.Or You could just be apprehensive for another reason & it's creating a block