Oh ok. I got excited about the power of PW. But I know I can help him slow down on it at least. I've already seen him do a few things I really didn't expect him to do because of PW...so I just have to keep the faith. I just think weed is deceptively more addictive than ppl realize. I'm speaking from experience here.
No it wasn't my doing. He actually decided to stop on his own before I discovered pw.He realized his life was spiralling out of control. He was starting to use other drugs as well.
WOW, that's so great Samibaby. Was there anything you did that you think really worked to get him to stop? I feel like it's a vicious cycle with him using it as medication of sorts and then being distant and indecisive with me, you know?
Blue wrote:
jessieroro wrote:
Thanks so much guys. I totally do believe in PW and I've seen it already help with my situation. I just know my POI smokes a good amount of weed, I think to self medicate and I think it makes his depression worse in a way. So I'm trying to help with both the depression and getting him to cut back on the weed. I'm definitely sending him as much love as I can in my PW sessions.
My man also smokes weed for his anxiety and chronic arm pain - I visualize him telling me he quit and such.
Exact same with mine. His weed smoking was very excessive. It was tough on our relationship because he was self medicating. I know exactly what you all are going through. Fortunately he's told me he recently stopped.
Yeah, totally agree Indigo. I have no idea if he's on meds but he could be. I think he also gets really top of the line stuff (he lives in NYC, so he definitely can get good stuff), BUT I totally agree the weed is not helping. I've been visualizing him really cutting back on weed and drinking.
jessieroro wrote:
Thanks so much guys. I totally do believe in PW and I've seen it already help with my situation. I just know my POI smokes a good amount of weed, I think to self medicate and I think it makes his depression worse in a way. So I'm trying to help with both the depression and getting him to cut back on the weed. I'm definitely sending him as much love as I can in my PW sessions.
My man also smokes weed for his anxiety and chronic arm pain - I visualize him telling me he quit and such.
jessieroro wrote:
Thanks so much guys. I totally do believe in PW and I've seen it already help with my situation. I just know my POI smokes a good amount of weed, I think to self medicate and I think it makes his depression worse in a way. So I'm trying to help with both the depression and getting him to cut back on the weed. I'm definitely sending him as much love as I can in my PW sessions.
Do try to get him to leave the reefer alone. They are putting so many extra
chemicals and it's so much more potent than it was back in the day. And
if he's on any type of medication and also smoking the reefer and maybe
combining those with alcohol, it could cause serious problems.
Thanks so much guys. I totally do believe in PW and I've seen it already help with my situation. I just know my POI smokes a good amount of weed, I think to self medicate and I think it makes his depression worse in a way. So I'm trying to help with both the depression and getting him to cut back on the weed. I'm definitely sending him as much love as I can in my PW sessions.
Imagine him being happy, you want to send him unconditional love as well as happiness and see him receiving these things in your PW. Him being depressed won't hinder anything, I can assure you. Just keep doing the techniques of him saying what you want him to say - but also try to send him love as well.
Yes mine has been dealing with depression for years. And I have been having success. I visualize him being happy and having a clear mind. I also pray for his healing
jessieroro wrote:
Does anyone have experience doing PW on a man who deals with depression? If so, what have you found effective. I'm learning that this may be something my POI deals with and I think it's really effecting the way he feels about himself and also of course our relationship. Thanks!
My man is a Vietnam veteran who suffers from PTSD he has a lot
of anger management issues and PW is working perfect. I think it
will work on anyone except if they are in a coma or something.
Does anyone have experience doing PW on a man who deals with depression? If so, what have you found effective. I'm learning that this may be something my POI deals with and I think it's really effecting the way he feels about himself and also of course our relationship. Thanks!