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    2/25/2017 8:31 pm

    oh btw indigo thanks for the advice on my subconscious mind im going to really try and focus - ive been doin the sleep technique to get my subconsciou mind to work but maybe il try a different technique 

    2/25/2017 7:35 pm

    Indigo wrote:

    donna89 wrote:

    update on my situation offiially 5 months since practicing loa and 1 month offical of lanies technique 

    i think im really beginning to lose the will and ,my patience ive been so happy and strong lately rly feeling excited like its working . everyday ive been imagining him sayin he's sorry etc that he loves me etc rly believing it. ive read so many success stories on here so many people have at least had one bit of contact from their guy like a drunken txt a like on fb etc ive had nothing . nothing nothing and i dont know if my pw/bwd is even reaching him i think out of everyone on this forum i really have the worst situation breaking up 3x and dealing with someone whos the most stubborn peraon u could ever meet its insane. since doing my pw this week he's actually been interested in eyt another girl to take out rather than me its liek he wants to date everyone xcept me nothing is workin on him seriuysly this is not normal everything , everything stops him from contactin me , he's literally not one bit bothered everyday i bn thinking its coming this works but in reality its really not ive rly rly rly rly tried with this and i feel so let down the universe has showed me nothing i even feel like the universe is against me its workign for every singel peraon not me and on top of that i have had absolutely no luck with any other area of my life im feeling like i just cant believe in this anymore.. but yet everyday i see 1111 and his nbame evrywhere i dnt know whats happening anymore i mean when i bumped into him at the station i thought after kissin me it would spark somethin and also he broke up with his rebound so i thought oh wow its coz he loves me he'll be back but no he's on to the nx girl - he litertally is not affected by my pw at all. i rly dont know what to do. 
    also i know this post is negative but im so upset i really am and plas people tell me is it working on him , will it work soon , is it just not gonna happen should i forget all this or keep doing pw i really need some help right now - hope u guys understand my situation and that i cnt feel positive right now when nothing working for me 
      

      
      
    Stop posting about how things are working for everybody else but not you because you
    don't know that to be true. You have got to stop worrying about him, what he's doing and
    who he's with, and you have got to stop fretting about whether PW is working or not.  
    Your conscious mind views reality, your subconscious sees possibilities without limits.  
    That is why you are supposed to meditate in the subconscious state.  And that is why
    you are not supposed to think about it with your conscious mind or what your eyeballs
    see.  My man could be laid up butt naked in a harem full of floozies and I wouldn't care.  
    Well, maybe.  LOLs.  But anyway, as long as you continue frustrating, worrying, moping,
    crying, dwelling on the negative and all the rest, it's not going to work for you.  And don't
    EVEN let him know that you miss him, long for him, desperate, jealous etc because that
    is exactly what he wants.  Once again = Read the books and do the meditations.  Do
    your own research like youtubes on LOA.  Learn as much as you can about it so that it
    becomes a lifestyle.  And girl, I'm going to stop responding to your posts because my old
    fingers are getting worn out because of doubters like you.
      
     i know what u mean its just sooooo hard  .... but im not going  feel guilty about doubting when its understandable when you stay positive and get the opposite results it would drive anyone crazy. im still going to believe that it works i just dont know if this is normal all the obstacles so obviosuly im going to doubt it and i come to this forum for guidance im allowed to vent like everyone else but it is just so annoying when u do every thing to stay strong and believe and you dont have not one bit of progress to keep you going and rs is supposed to make him closer to me like i said ive rly bn feeling positive and if we are meant to believe that what u focus on is what u recieve then surely by now i would be recieveing contact, an apology  being together not him dating eveyone and anyone except me its CRAZY!!!!! he's lost my number so he cnt even tx me and he can only message request me if he wants to which he hasnt honestly u have no idea what im dealin with a guy who donyt even wna be my friend il kp going with these techniques and realign to feel better
     

     

    2/25/2017 4:51 pm

    donna89 wrote:

    update on my situation offiially 5 months since practicing loa and 1 month offical of lanies technique 

    i think im really beginning to lose the will and ,my patience ive been so happy and strong lately rly feeling excited like its working . everyday ive been imagining him sayin he's sorry etc that he loves me etc rly believing it. ive read so many success stories on here so many people have at least had one bit of contact from their guy like a drunken txt a like on fb etc ive had nothing . nothing nothing and i dont know if my pw/bwd is even reaching him i think out of everyone on this forum i really have the worst situation breaking up 3x and dealing with someone whos the most stubborn peraon u could ever meet its insane. since doing my pw this week he's actually been interested in eyt another girl to take out rather than me its liek he wants to date everyone xcept me nothing is workin on him seriuysly this is not normal everything , everything stops him from contactin me , he's literally not one bit bothered everyday i bn thinking its coming this works but in reality its really not ive rly rly rly rly tried with this and i feel so let down the universe has showed me nothing i even feel like the universe is against me its workign for every singel peraon not me and on top of that i have had absolutely no luck with any other area of my life im feeling like i just cant believe in this anymore.. but yet everyday i see 1111 and his nbame evrywhere i dnt know whats happening anymore i mean when i bumped into him at the station i thought after kissin me it would spark somethin and also he broke up with his rebound so i thought oh wow its coz he loves me he'll be back but no he's on to the nx girl - he litertally is not affected by my pw at all. i rly dont know what to do. 
    also i know this post is negative but im so upset i really am and plas people tell me is it working on him , will it work soon , is it just not gonna happen should i forget all this or keep doing pw i really need some help right now - hope u guys understand my situation and that i cnt feel positive right now when nothing working for me 
      

      
      
    Stop posting about how things are working for everybody else but not you because you
    don't know that to be true. You have got to stop worrying about him, what he's doing and
    who he's with, and you have got to stop fretting about whether PW is working or not.  
    Your conscious mind views reality, your subconscious sees possibilities without limits.  
    That is why you are supposed to meditate in the subconscious state.  And that is why
    you are not supposed to think about it with your conscious mind or what your eyeballs
    see.  My man could be laid up butt naked in a harem full of floozies and I wouldn't care.  
    Well, maybe.  LOLs.  But anyway, as long as you continue frustrating, worrying, moping,
    crying, dwelling on the negative and all the rest, it's not going to work for you.  And don't
    EVEN let him know that you miss him, long for him, desperate, jealous etc because that
    is exactly what he wants.  Once again = Read the books and do the meditations.  Do
    your own research like youtubes on LOA.  Learn as much as you can about it so that it
    becomes a lifestyle.  And girl, I'm going to stop responding to your posts because my old
    fingers are getting worn out because of doubters like you.
      
      
     

    2/25/2017 4:05 pm

    update on my situation offiially 5 months since practicing loa and 1 month offical of lanies technique 

    i think im really beginning to lose the will and ,my patience ive been so happy and strong lately rly feeling excited like its working . everyday ive been imagining him sayin he's sorry etc that he loves me etc rly believing it. ive read so many success stories on here so many people have at least had one bit of contact from their guy like a drunken txt a like on fb etc ive had nothing . nothing nothing and i dont know if my pw/bwd is even reaching him i think out of everyone on this forum i really have the worst situation breaking up 3x and dealing with someone whos the most stubborn peraon u could ever meet its insane. since doing my pw this week he's actually been interested in eyt another girl to take out rather than me its liek he wants to date everyone xcept me nothing is workin on him seriuysly this is not normal everything , everything stops him from contactin me , he's literally not one bit bothered everyday i bn thinking its coming this works but in reality its really not ive rly rly rly rly tried with this and i feel so let down the universe has showed me nothing i even feel like the universe is against me its workign for every singel peraon not me and on top of that i have had absolutely no luck with any other area of my life im feeling like i just cant believe in this anymore.. but yet everyday i see 1111 and his nbame evrywhere i dnt know whats happening anymore i mean when i bumped into him at the station i thought after kissin me it would spark somethin and also he broke up with his rebound so i thought oh wow its coz he loves me he'll be back but no he's on to the nx girl - he litertally is not affected by my pw at all. i rly dont know what to do. 
    also i know this post is negative but im so upset i really am and plas people tell me is it working on him , will it work soon , is it just not gonna happen should i forget all this or keep doing pw i really need some help right now - hope u guys understand my situation and that i cnt feel positive right now when nothing working for me 

    2/19/2017 1:54 pm

    thank you everyone for all your messages im glad i can come to this forum and feel back on track its hard when some people have loa and rs work for them like 2 weeks even 2 days lol for me its hard its 5 months nothing but il keep goin what have i got to lose. and in regards to me not being able to date and having no dates is that a good sign that the universe doesnt want me to meet anyone else is that a sign universe wants me bc with my mr?? 
    thanks everyonex

    2/18/2017 10:33 pm

    jessieroro wrote:

    Honestly maybe it's time you take a break from the technique and focus on you and just recharge. When you're doing LOA and resenting it the whole time it's like an endless cycle of perpetuating negativity. Also maybe it's best you don't know so much about his life for a bit.

    I agree just take a break and clear your head. If you feel sad and hopeless you will get no where. If I'm tired or in a bad mood I don't do the techniques. Only when I'm in a good mood. Hunni loa is real trust me. You just have to be in the right state of mind.

    2/18/2017 10:31 pm

    jessieroro wrote:

    Honestly maybe it's time you take a break from the technique and focus on you and just recharge. When you're doing LOA and resenting it the whole time it's like an endless cycle of perpetuating negativity. Also maybe it's best you don't know so much about his life for a bit.

    I agree. I would add that you need to stop saying he's resisting you. You're just manifesting more resistance. Veronica talks about this extensively in her books and videos. For me, that was easier said then done so I started using   Lanie's Stop Obsessing meditation for at least a week straight and now just every few days. It has helped me tremendously with my patience and moving forward in life. I've even taken off quite a few days of PW or fallen asleep during it lately but I'm more confident then ever that it's working even if I haven't heard from him.

    2/18/2017 9:05 pm

    Honestly maybe it's time you take a break from the technique and focus on you and just recharge. When you're doing LOA and resenting it the whole time it's like an endless cycle of perpetuating negativity. Also maybe it's best you don't know so much about his life for a bit.

    2/18/2017 9:00 pm

    donna89 wrote:

    Blue wrote:

    Girl you have to wait for more than a month, it takes time. If you think it's not working then it won't. The techniques do work, you need to have faith and let go.

     
    I know lol I think when you do it and just keep getting obstacles it just feels like it's backfiring. I mean since me doing the rs imaginin him telling me he loves me etc it's made him go and ask out lots different girls... Surely it should be making him come to me not them that's why I feel so disheartened
      

      
      
    Don't worry about what he is doing.  Read the books, do the meditations.  You are
    trying to manifest him OR someone better.  Just keep at it, you don't have to do it
    every day, you can do it every other day, but you must stick with it and keep on
    doing it.  And please work on getting some patience because you do not seem to
    have any.  Everyone wants everything right now, including me, but it just doesn't
    work that way sometimes.  
      
      
     

    2/18/2017 8:43 pm

    Blue wrote:

    Girl you have to wait for more than a month, it takes time. If you think it's not working then it won't. The techniques do work, you need to have faith and let go.

     
    I know lol I think when you do it and just keep getting obstacles it just feels like it's backfiring. I mean since me doing the rs imaginin him telling me he loves me etc it's made him go and ask out lots different girls... Surely it should be making him come to me not them that's why I feel so disheartened

    2/18/2017 8:35 pm

    Girl you have to wait for more than a month, it takes time. If you think it's not working then it won't. The techniques do work, you need to have faith and let go.

    2/18/2017 8:09 pm

    Update so it's officially 1 month practicing rs and seriously for me I'm not having any success one bit. It's also now 5 months practicing low n Veronica techniques I have to say I'm getting 0 progress and getting a bit pissed off nothing is working. He ended it with other girl thought he'd be doing that to see me but no not at all he's out all time asking girls out plus when we bumped into each other that day it had no effect on him whatsoever. What the hell is going on here he's completely resisting me I feel it sense it an see it these techniques are not working and I thought I'm in love with him but if I need to date then I have to for now but the universe is sending me the worst guys I don't get it is that sign that the universe wants us BC together coz I'm not meeting ne1 else Greer I'm so fed up 5 months of o progress getting to me now at
    What do I do soz guys fly need some help here  (shocked)

    2/16/2017 2:10 pm

    Indigo wrote:

      
      
    I'm sorry you are having a bad day today.  I don't have anything new 
    because I have said it all before - if you do not believe it works it is 
    not going to.  It's a matter of mind over matter.  About a job, if you 
    can't find a job, make a job.  You are intelligent, figure something out
    that will produce income for you in the real world or online.  If there are
    people out here making billions of dollars then there is money for you.  
    As to your man, you must decide if there is a chance for you to get
    back together and whether you want to continue to meditate on him.
    But you must believe it will work.  Anyway, Lanie's got a freebie on
    the PP book, that's the one I'm always telling you all to read.
    If you don't already have it, now's your chance.
     
      
      

    hey indigo thanks for your message yeah ive been so up and down lately when i met him 2 weeks ago after 5 months nc i really thought it would be the start of soemthing so special because the universe would make it happen ... but it didnt it was opposite as you know from my previous posts. well ive had a few days to really think and ive come to conclusion that i cnat give up ive invested 5 months of this rs, visualisation etc to turn my back on my hard work im going to see it through and believe. everyone is right the more i say he's stubborn he will be the more i say that we broke up 3x its not gonna work it created the drama im realising this now i just have to stay on track, its hard because the universe messes with you gives u glimmer of hope then nothing like some others ...but i willl carry on stay strong keep rs him telling me he wants to get back together etc because i relasied that since doing rs he broke up with the girl he was seein after me so maybe that is a sign im doing the rs well but i spose i was xpecting too much wanting him to come straight back .. but il keep going and hopefully post a success story SOON 
    btw thanks for telling me bout the download i got it 
     

    2/14/2017 8:31 pm

      
      
    I'm sorry you are having a bad day today.  I don't have anything new 
    because I have said it all before - if you do not believe it works it is 
    not going to.  It's a matter of mind over matter.  About a job, if you 
    can't find a job, make a job.  You are intelligent, figure something out
    that will produce income for you in the real world or online.  If there are
    people out here making billions of dollars then there is money for you.  
    As to your man, you must decide if there is a chance for you to get
    back together and whether you want to continue to meditate on him.
    But you must believe it will work.  Anyway, Lanie's got a freebie on
    the PP book, that's the one I'm always telling you all to read.
    If you don't already have it, now's your chance.
     
      
      

    2/14/2017 7:52 pm

    i don't quite know whats happening but i cannot manifest a thing a job, new social life , my exs nothing everything at the moment just feels stuck. im really losing faith in rs and pw and loa 5 months not a 1% diffrence in an y of my circumstances i feel so numb and upset i dont think loa works for me if the universe was real it wouldnt let someone suffer like this if its all about love and gratitude for 5 months i bn so excited to do this etc completely changed but i havnt even been able to manifest his attention at all and from my previous post we have broke up 3x before i jus feel like the universe is not wanting me to give this a 4th chance so much resistance from him and valentines day woulda bn perfect to reach out to me im genuinely so upset i rly wanted to kp goin with this but its jus not one sign from him some u lot at least have ur ex sayin hi even as a friend!!! i dnt not even!!! i dont know whether im to kp tryin till it happens one day or jus finally admit he rly dont love me i,m not gna force it pls help me guys i need some gd advice - youl see my prev posts the background story 

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