Thank you, Lanie!  
I have both books but I only have the mediations too since recently.  

Yeah, I feel like it's quite a change!  
And IF there WAS a competition - she seems to have gone!!! 

I will try it on those other guys too.  I know it might take longer as, like I have said I haven't met two of them in the flesh so it might take longer on them but we'll see.  Be fun to try ;-) 

Thanks for replying!! 

Hiya.

I'm going to give you an update.

Actually, I've used the techniques once before, but then I only had the books, now I also have the meditations.
I wanted the guys to date me, but instead they sort of proposed.  (Yes, really.  As in "I want to marry you, I want to have a baby with you.")  But I don't want to re-marry!  I JUST wanted to be taken out on a freaking date with them! And one guy I used it on, a LONG time later showed up on facebook and we re-connected, but he only wanted a sexual thing.  But initially he wanted NOTHING to do with me (cos of things that I said.)  I think I used them for about a month in every case.  I don't THINK I had success with my ex, but, again it was only a month.  

Anyway, this is more recent now, what I'm going to share.

I used it on one of the guys who proposed in the past who I mentioned. He was quite nasty in what he said to me on Christmas Day (of all days!) and was implying he had this girlfriend etc etc.  So that was late December.
One time I did BWD on him a few times, just mentally on the train (New Years' Eve evening) and FIVE minutes later he texted.  He was asking about this friend I wanted him to help.  But the timing was FREAKY.

Then nothing.  Then OK I broke no contact, I know, I know.  But also there's something I want him to help me with.  We talked about it.  In Jan and he was neutral.  Quite pleasant. No nastiness.  Helpful.  

Early February he called me about that situation and we talked about it again.  
Then all of a sudden he started to ask about my sex life! I told him off, basically, reminding him what he'd said.

About a week later (so, Feb) he calls me and he's all wanting to have sex with me!  (He didn't get it) and I said "What about the other girl?" and he said something like "There's nobody else." 

So, OK it's not lovey dovey, it just went to sexual, but in less than two months using the techniques, just a few times a week, I've been so busy at work!  He went from saying something mean and not desiring me at all, in fact saying he desired someone ELSE!  To neutral.  To all horny for me!  And saying there is nobody else!!

The last time we talked after THAT, he was neutral and we just talked about the thing he's helping me with, but he sounds like he's really trying hard to help me!! 

So that's THAT experience with it.

I'm thinking of adding some guys I'm crushing on to the mix though.  

There's one I messed things up with at the beginning stages and I feel there WAS potential there.  And there's two online guys I have a wee crush on who sometimes chat but haven't met me. 

But, although I've done BWD twice now on one of them ;-) I have never met either of them in person.  Me and the one who proposed and who I did it all on more recently, well, we DID meet and there's a history so there's like a bond.  Which i don't have with those two guys (a tiny one with the one I messed up with, I DID meet him and so on.)  

Might it still work on them?

I have one more question.

How might you use this in a non-romantic/non-sexual situation, like work or friends etc?
Would you call, connect and then give different messages?
Obviously you wouldn't "do" sexual stuff!

Has anyone done this?  How did it go?

Anyway, yeah!