So I've been using the PW and BWD methods for a few weeks now and it's been rough emotionally because I've just met him and had no idea how he feels towards me. And was generally confused especially because he's really busy so he's not a texter. So today i got in a strange mood where i was like "eff this, I'm tired of being in the dark I'm just gonna call him, if he answers good, if not I'll take it as a sign to move on."
So I did a oracle card reading asking my guides if this is something i should do or if i'm being desperate/emotional. I got the green light but still felt nervous. But as I went to class a few things happened that lead to my success.
For one I had a road rage incident( not good of course) and the person followed me, and in hindsight i realized that this situation kept my mind so occupied that I didn't even have room for negative thoughts or doubts or overthinking! An odd method but it worked! Then my teacher is sick so she tells us class will be cut short. A class this is usually 5 hours long (until 910pm) ended at 710 (usually the time when my POI is getting off work or home depending on what's happened).
So before i can chicken out i call him not even expecting an answer. After a lot of scary rings he answers! He'd just gotten off work! He's asking me all these questions about things we talked about a month ago i didn't even know how he remembered! Then he apologized that his last trip was supposed to be a few days and ended up being over a week! He had no signal no way to even communicate with his bosses. then he thanked me so much for my patience with him.
During the call he strongly expressed his disdain for texting. But shortly after i get home i get a text from him, and we text for two hours sending pictures and flirting. he even told me i'm welcome at his place any time! and how much he wished i was cuddling with him and next to him like so many sweet things i didn't expect! Then he goes to bed at 9 (I normally wouldn't be out of class yet!)
we plan on seeing each other again in two weeks when his traveling FINLLY settles down. 😍 I plan on making him a nice dinner and dessert because he was already impressed when i made boxed mac and cheese the first night we met. He'll be head over heels when he sees what i can really do!