Lulu11 wrote:

So he is currently back in my life after using PW a BWD here and there but also some of Veronica's 25 day challenge as well as scripting. But last night we spoke and he was like , "what happened if we were together and I got a vasectomy and we never had kids" .... he's been through kid thing before with ex wife but was kinda a stab at my heart need some positive vibes advice and words!! That's something important to me as much as I love him idk if he can't provide that to me or isn't atleast willing idk. Kinda had me sad hearing that for a bit.
  

  
  
This is difficult but if he has expressed to you that he doesn't want any more children
then you need to accept that.  Would you want to have children with a man and as the
years go by he doesn't bestow his love upon them or mistreats them or resents them?  
Or you are wondering for the rest of your life whether you did the wrong thing by having
children with a man who did not really want them when he told you from the start that
he did not?  Either you decide that you are not going to have children with him or you
align yourself with a different man who loves you, who wants to have children with you,
who will provide for them and raise them with you.  If that is what you want.  I know that
this is hurtful right now, but it's better to deal with it now than later.