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3/10/2017 12:25 pm
Manifestation Maven wrote:
I have a bit of a dillema, so I'm still very much in love with my guy but we are on a break and there isn't commitment here right now. I met someone who truthfully I don't like in a romantic way but he is a lot of fun and knows a lot of people ( I don't have many friends around here) so I feel like I'd like to date him for fun and ya girl hasn't been laid in over six months yikes... I know detachment from the outcome is a big part of manifesting but would sleeping with someone else be too far? I do want my guy back but I've realized I've been so focused on just wanting him that I haven't focused enough on the changes I want to see in him and quite frankly if it's more of the same then I'm not interested. I just don't know if using BWD on this new dude and developing a dating relationship will mess up my manifestation... What do you guys think?
From what I've read on these boards some people have done PW and BWD on two people and gotten results for both. Personally I am doing PW and BWD on the guy who I want to make changes but don't see them coming anytime soon so in the interim I'm casually dating a wonderful nice guy who wants to take me out. He has all of the qualities I'm looking for. It doesn't change me stop wanting my other POI to come around and I am still doing PW and BWD on the first POI only. ( I don't feel the need to do it in the guy I'm dating casually because He already treats me so well)
So coming from personal experience , At the very least this new person you date could possess all of the amazing qualities you wanted in the previous POI (which sometimes happens when you change your vibration - you attract men who have more of the good qualities) so you may find yourself falling for someone new and ultimately no longer care about the other guy. Either way it's all about you and what makes you happy so if this new person treats you with love and kindness I see no reason not to entertain them.
3/10/2017 11:52 am
I have a bit of a dillema, so I'm still very much in love with my guy but we are on a break and there isn't commitment here right now. I met someone who truthfully I don't like in a romantic way but he is a lot of fun and knows a lot of people ( I don't have many friends around here) so I feel like I'd like to date him for fun and ya girl hasn't been laid in over six months yikes... I know detachment from the outcome is a big part of manifesting but would sleeping with someone else be too far? I do want my guy back but I've realized I've been so focused on just wanting him that I haven't focused enough on the changes I want to see in him and quite frankly if it's more of the same then I'm not interested. I just don't know if using BWD on this new dude and developing a dating relationship will mess up my manifestation... What do you guys think?
3/08/2017 11:08 pm
So I did PW today and managed my anxiety around the situation with EFT tapping on the fear of the unknown on YouTube and it helped a lot. It's funny cause when you're close to someone you really have a telepathic link and lately I've been paranoid of him seeing other people but then I let go of the fear and ask my guides if he is and I always feel he isn't. He just needs some time to get his stuff together since this relationship will require quite a bit of work. So overall I'm feeling pretty good, I've even begun to pray for the happiness of someone who was meddling and I'm already feeling her energy drifting away from the situation.
3/07/2017 12:07 am
Caught myself getting super anxious today and sad about my guy so I did the jealousy meditation and instantly felt better! I wrapped up my meditations today (March 6th) with the BWD meditation, I've been focused on PW and use some sexual language during those sessions as well and he and I have always had an amazing sexual relationship so I thought doing BWD would be a little much. Now I'm gonna try to alternate between them both PW in the morning and BWD at night before bed to keep him in line lol. One thing I've learned throughout this process is how important it is that we make a full commitment to feeling good. I've had a file FULL of Lanie's meditations for close to a year now and tons of different LOA resources that I just didn't use, because watching what my brain could do scared the crap out of me and I wasn't completely done with being a victim. I'm currently reading Super Accelerated Living which was recommended by another member and its helped me realize just how negative my mindset was before! It's a constant choice to choose a better vibe and rise above, one I wasn't ready to commit to but now I am. 
3/05/2017 8:39 pm
Hey guys, so I've been having a bit of a hard time staying focused on RS because I've been focused on work and school but I have been doing it once a day for about half an hour. I'm trying pretty hard to stay focused on what I want and have funny enough been really tempted to call a psychic...I'm just trying to stay focused on the vision I have and stay devoted to it, even though I haven't yet seen the exact results I want in the last two months or so but I do feel that something significant will happen this month.
2/28/2017 6:36 pm
You're inspiring me so much, Maven!
2/28/2017 5:39 pm
Hi Ladies! So I've been absent from my thread for the past few days because I've been struggling to find my footing in other parts of my life. I've been really stressed and anxious about my finances, school and generally where I want to go. I'm realizing more and more that I'm the only thing that has gotten in my way and I had a moment of grieving over that. Thankfully, I'm mostly out of it and now I'm about to write down my general goal for each part of my life and what I want to achieve towards each of them in the month of March. As for my guy, I have used PW for the past few days but I've done it once a day in the morning and then used a heart energy meditation at night before bed. This week I think I'll focus on PW and BWD cause I could use some lol
2/25/2017 10:42 pm
Hi Ladies,
So I didn't update yesterday because I didn't do the technique on my man and was contemplating what the best course of action would be. I recently found out that there reason why my guy hasn't been in contact as much is cause he has been feeling stressed out and bad about himself and the way he has acted for that reason I'm trying to figure out what wording would best help him see that his relationship with me is empowering and not something that is meant to make him feel bad. His whole vibe has been you are perfect and I'm the one who needs to change, I did direct energy at trying to get him to take responsibility for himself and to mature but I never meant for it lower his self-esteem and make him retreat the way he has. So now I've decided to focus my intention on healing him and our communication and for him to understand that he is worthy of the love I send his way. So tonight before I hit the sack, I'll be sending love his way. Other than that today I worked at setting up my new online business venture and have been proud of my progress thus far and I'm doing an intenders circle with some friends tomorrow to send our energies towards success in our lives in every way possible
2/23/2017 8:06 pm
Yay keep going on your journey you're doing great!!
Thanks so much! Well today I'm only gonna do PW once and I'm gonna focus on healing our love and raising my guy's self esteem. He has a lot going on right now and isn't feeling too good about himself, I don't want him to be tortured by the love he has for me I want him to be happy and feel good so I'm doing PW geared towards that and I'm going to focus on everything coming together nicely for us Today has been a very relaxing day, I've been working out and eating super clean so today I treated myself to a quesadilla and had the day off so I just spent it resting and planning my new ventures which I'm excited about.
2/22/2017 2:47 pm
Yay keep going on your journey you're doing great!!
2/22/2017 2:18 pm
I'm cheering you on! Keep it up!
Thanks babe! Lol, I honestly just felt like I was talking to myself in this thread, thanks for cheering me on!
2/22/2017 9:51 am
I'm cheering you on! Keep it up!
2/22/2017 9:06 am
So I started my morning off with a full 24 minute PW session and now I'm eating a healthy breakfast and then hitting the gym
2/21/2017 9:09 pm
Hope no one else is bothered by this but this thread is part of how I'm keeping myself accountable to working towards my goals. I just realized, I should also use it to document my fitness and financial progress as well since this process is about creating your overall dream life. So first thing tomorrow morning I am going to the gym and tonight before bed after doing bwd I'm gonna play money manifestation meditation while I sleep tonight. I'm working to manifest an extra 3,000 dollars a month this year
2/21/2017 9:53 am
Hi guys,
So first thing when I woke up this morning I gave gratitude for all the great things in my life and then I dove into a short but intense PW session on my guy. I then decided to script out a message I'd love to receive from him I'll do BWD tonight before bed.
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