I know my guy is getting my messages by the topics he talks about but I'm getting really frustrated. It's like one step forward two steps back. Lately I've been waking up really early so I have been doing the technique and I have him say I choose you and I have been having him say this for well over a week now. This morning he says that when you wake up, sometimes those feelings you get from your unconscious mind aren't real and you need to make a choice. (Hello, yes your choice is me) I don't know if I should laugh or cry. As I think I have told you all before he is a life coach and he is very good at blocking thoughts that he does not want. I don't know if I should give up on him or not. It's sometimes disheartening to hear the words come out of his mouth when he twists it around to block the feeling. Not sure where to post anything anymore but it's about the same guy so I thought I would post it here.
I originally set out to manifest a specific person back into my life, while I was on that journey a guy who lives in the same city as me and who likes the same things as that person started talking to me, one of my closest friends is also his friends so we had the means to be in the same place, the specific person came back and myself and that person stopped speaking because I was obviously over the moon that the person I thought was better for me was back. A month later the person left again because I knew he would with all the doubts I had. For 5 months I pined over this person and decided to do the whole "this or something better" approach why wouldn't you want something better given the chance? To my surprise, the friend of a friend came back! So we spoke daily again, played video games together and eventually met up, got drunk and slept together. Something I knew would happen, we've squabbled a few times since then since I'm giving off mixed signals because of past fears but now I really care about this guy and the old specific person doesn't cross my mind unless I bring him up.
I'm not worried about how this situation plays out as much, though, I'm in a situation with more to gain than to lose, I'm also seeing him in 3 weeks anyway.
Evey2222 wrote:
Similar issue with me as well, was so focused on my ex and wanting to work things out and get him back, when i dated this new guy he was everything I had been looking for! Things ended and now I want him back and not my other ex! We can do this, if its our desire its in them as well to desire us (So I have heard before anyway).
Please don't be sad, because sad spelled backwards is das, and das not good... Sorry thought that would make you laugh haha!!
Keep smiling you can get him back![]()
(shout)
Cracked me up!! Ba ha ha!
Thanks for your replies. I guess I'm just worried that he will think I will reject him again. I know he gets what I say as he has used some words or has talked about a subject that I have meditated on to him but I don't know if he knows that I do really like him.
And evey2222 you did make me laugh when I read it😂
Evey2222 wrote:
Similar issue with me as well, was so focused on my ex and wanting to work things out and get him back, when i dated this new guy he was everything I had been looking for! Things ended and now I want him back and not my other ex! We can do this, if its our desire its in them as well to desire us (So I have heard before anyway).
Please don't be sad, because sad spelled backwards is das, and das not good... Sorry thought that would make you laugh haha!!
Keep smiling you can get him back![]()
Yep this is happening to me as well.
Similar issue with me as well, was so focused on my ex and wanting to work things out and get him back, when i dated this new guy he was everything I had been looking for! Things ended and now I want him back and not my other ex! We can do this, if its our desire its in them as well to desire us (So I have heard before anyway).
Please don't be sad, because sad spelled backwards is das, and das not good... Sorry thought that would make you laugh haha!!
Keep smiling you can get him back
Joshbemine wrote:
Don't give up on someone else because you are to preoccupied with your ex. I kick myself everyday that I let a great man get away. Yes I rejected this man because I was to court up on someone else thinking he was the bees knees, only to realise that this guy ticked every single box on my list on what I wanted in a man. And now after 4 months of PW, BWD and love spell I'm left wondering if he even knows how much I think and care about him. I'm to the point of do I give up, he always tells me ( we do have contact via message, he is a motivational coach) not to give up on your dream, if only he knew that he is a part of my dream world he still tell me that.
Sorry I don't mean to be so sad but it really hit me today when he said he didn't think I would reach out to him with birthday wishes. I don't feel I can tell him personally how I feel as he is in a relationship now and it is really up to him to decide whether to leave that relationship on the feeling he has for me, not on my feelings I have for him, and quite frankly I'm scared of being rejected by him. He does know how grateful I am of him and how much I appreciate him, I have told him that personally.
I don't know how to better my PW sessions to let him know that I do care and love him, I have thought about telling him how I feel in my sessions but I get very emotional thinking about it and I don't know how beneficial that would be. I try and live in the end and imagine how life would be with him in it. But I really don't know what else I should do to let him know. Got any ideas on what I should do.
Girl, I have done the same thing in the past, this was 4 years ago and I regret it everyday ! I would say don't give up ! You are in contact with him, that is great ! I would keep up with PW, BWD, etc...and get that man back
Don't give up on someone else because you are to preoccupied with your ex. I kick myself everyday that I let a great man get away. Yes I rejected this man because I was to court up on someone else thinking he was the bees knees, only to realise that this guy ticked every single box on my list on what I wanted in a man. And now after 4 months of PW, BWD and love spell I'm left wondering if he even knows how much I think and care about him. I'm to the point of do I give up, he always tells me ( we do have contact via message, he is a motivational coach) not to give up on your dream, if only he knew that he is a part of my dream world he still tell me that.
Sorry I don't mean to be so sad but it really hit me today when he said he didn't think I would reach out to him with birthday wishes. I don't feel I can tell him personally how I feel as he is in a relationship now and it is really up to him to decide whether to leave that relationship on the feeling he has for me, not on my feelings I have for him, and quite frankly I'm scared of being rejected by him. He does know how grateful I am of him and how much I appreciate him, I have told him that personally.
I don't know how to better my PW sessions to let him know that I do care and love him, I have thought about telling him how I feel in my sessions but I get very emotional thinking about it and I don't know how beneficial that would be. I try and live in the end and imagine how life would be with him in it. But I really don't know what else I should do to let him know. Got any ideas on what I should do.