chibibi wrote:

Hi Indigo!
     I've been doing this meditations since beginning of February! Yes! I read PW and BWD. Currently I am reading love spell! and I feel so relaxed and connected after my meditation almost every time! I personally don't do guided meditation anymore because I can't quite my mind while I am listening to others. I tried for couple other people"s guided meditations too but they never helped me to relax or quite my mind.  I have always been a good visualizer/ day dreamer haha so I think I am doing a good job.

    Lately I have little pain in my chest and I am getting less paitient. I was able to fix me and my man's relationship enough that we were talking 1-3 times a week. But all he wanted was sex with me and I made it clear that's not what I want... He still talked to me until 2 weeks ago. We were going to grab some lunch but he just ditched me saying his car sound weird...Since then we haven't really talked... and even though I am telling myself he loves me and misses me, the fact he just wanted sex outta me can't get out of my mind. and since I made that clear, he stopped bothering texting me and that just keep hurting me... Most of the time I do a great job staying positive but it gets harder and harder after a while when I can't see any in front of my eyes kind of progress that eventually the pain comes back

  

  

Sometimes I use the guided meditations but mostly I do my own thing
with my meditations and visualizations, so I understand how you feel.  
Continue doing PW since you haven't been doing it for long.  

Once you finish ML get PP and BU2MU too.  Lanie knows how to get
men to do things that are important to us with "behavioral training" for
us and them and plenty of good advice also.  

We can all learn from Lanie, I have learned so much about the correct
way to make him do what I want, not all the dumb stuff I did before I
had the knowledge.  The things Lanie writes about are simple to do, 
like falling off a log.

I think it's fine to have sex with a guy as long as you know he really
cares, but if that is all he wants it's difficult because a woman wants
to feel loved and cared for.  

Whenever you start feeling dejected, think about something different
and keep yourself busy with something else.  Something so simple
as taking a nice warm bubble bath with candlelights will make you
feel so much better 
  
  

  
  
 


 

chibibi wrote:

   Hello beautiful people! I am new to PS and BWD, and to this forum. I just cannot wait to write my success story to encourage people!

  I found these techniques this February and been working on since then. I have been reading everyone's story and have no doubt in my mind. I know my love is coming back and he is already missing me so badly. However I just haven't been able to see the signs in front of my eyes. Even tho I know it is working and someone said when it seems like it's not working, its actually working the most... It is a bit hard to stay motivated and not to get frustrated... Can anyone help me with this stacked feeling? And I know that I am so impatient. How did anybody get over the impatiences?? I would be so thankful for even a small advice!

Thank you and hope you have wonderful manifestations! 
  

  
  
Welcome Chibibi!

You will become more patient once you start doing PW on a regular basis.

How long have you been doing the meditations?  Have you read the books?
Are you using Lanie's guided meditations?  How are you coming along with 
your visualizations?  What's going on.