So some crazy stuff has happened. Last night my ex came to my house and we had a nice night out having a couple drinks and food. During the meal he ordered a specific beer and I wanted him to get a different one. I thought about him getting the one I wanted him to have. The waitress ended up mixing up beers from another table and gave him the one I wanted him to drink on accident!
Next thing, I visualized what he would be wearing before he got to my house and he was wearing exactly what I envisioned.
Before he got to my place he told me he wasn't going to sleep over, I visualized him sleeping over before he got there and he ended up staying over (his mom even told him he should stay over before he came to my place).
So my ex stayed over and I felt the connection with him I had visualied. I feel even stronger feelings for him now then I ever have before. He still has yet to say anything about how he feels but we were intimate and as girls we just know how they feel without them even saying it sometimes 😉
The meditations and becoming secure and confident with who we are before getting into a relationship really works. We just need to stay positive and know that in the end, if we have faith, things always work out.
Now I'm just waiting on him to tell me exactly how he feels! Visualizing how he will say it (which will most likely be very soon)
Keep the faith! Even during the meal my ex was telling me how things work out for people when they have faith.
I just have one more quick question. My guy and I are very good friends and we talk a decent amount. How does the no contact rule work for this? We both contact each other. Should I stop contacting him until he tells me how he feels?
Thanks and it ended up she bought him the ticket anyways (just talked to him). I'll keep you guys updated. Hope this all helps people who are second gusssing the techniques because seriously I have had so much progress since I last dated this kid! Just have faith and believe!
If he's contacting you while he's with her, it seems pretty clear to me that he doesn't feel that strongly for her. If you were with a guy you really cared about, you wouldn't be contacting another guy, right? So it all sounds pretty promising to me!
Any thoughts?
Update : So he ended up calling me when he was with the girl. So clearly she doesn't mean much to him. Funny because the call came as I was doing pwd he's going to be my boyfriend again sooner than I think I'm sure!
I think that you are doing very well with the results you have attained.
Continue doing the PW meditations on him as everyone else has said.
There is a recent thread about
How to do PW/ LOA when there is another woman
that contains a link to a video that you might try. Otherwise just focus
your attention on him and don't even think about the other woman.
Okay I'll keep you updated 😊 Also, should I not do another love spell on him, just wait for the results?
Yay! I cant wait to see what effect it has on him!
Yes I just did the spell last week 😊
Hi MLK, thats great! Are you going to try the love spell on him?
And also he still hangs out with a girl who used to try to get in the way of our relationship. He knows I don't like her and is seeing a concert with her this weekend. Just let all that go? I know Him and I will be together in the end but that sometimes bothers me
Just keep visualising him saying it and I guarantee the universe will surprise you
Okay but I want him to be the one to say it. Although sometimes I feel I should. Thoughts on that?
it already sounds like a success, well done. keep going, i believe the best is yet to be.