Could the lack of results be due to not visualizing properly or not being truly in alpha state, i.e. The meditation was not skillfully executed and POI failed to receive message?

I think you really need to raise your vibration, focus on yourself and your happiness firstbefore trying to manifest your ex back. When you are in the right frame of mind you will not question the percieved "lack".

You have this mindset that your case is special, i need to remind you at the crux of it we are all essentially here for the same/similar reasons. Members are not regurgitating advice for the heck of it, what we have been sharing here on this forum works.

You need to get out of your own way.

Evey2222 just posted a wonderful update here:
http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?pid=23262#p23262

how do I know this even works for me when after months he's cold and acts like I killed his family when he hurt me ? He acts like I'm not alive and makes it seem like Its hard to talk to me

IssyKitten, I totally get your frustation but I feel it'll serve you in so many ways if you enjoy the process and stop focusing on how long things are taking. PW, the spell and really all LOA work  are going to take even longer (or not work at all) if you focus on the amount of time and don't enjoy the process on some level.

You're welcome. Keep me posted.

I know that when I was cheated on, even before it happened, I carried around a lot of self doubt and I questioned my worth. As I look back,  I even recall actually telling him "I'm not sure why anyone would want to love me."  One of the most important and most attractive things about a woman is her self confidence.  Unfortunately,  everything can seem perfect and a woman's lack of confidence could be keeping men at bay.

I have something that I'd like for you to try,  something that worked for me.  Write down everything about you that makes you a great partner, a great person etc.  It can be things as simple as "i make great mac and cheese" or as powerful as "I'm very loving and sincere".  Write and read these things so that you see and feel what makes you so special, so special that no one is a match for him but you. You can infuse those things into your PW meditations so that he he knows too.

PW works and creates a connection and he feels what you send.  It could be as simple that he is ready to come for you, but self doubt is creating a delay. Try this and I"m certain that you'll start to feel better.  I know it gets frustrating to not have validation that things are working and it can even be a downer to read other people's success but your day is coming. Hang in there.

When he cheated, what did it do to you?  For example, when I was cheated on I started to question what was so wrong with me and I believed that I wasn't fit for anyone else to date.

Try the spell if you haven't already. Sincerely wishing you will witness a breakthrough speedily. i know how impossibly tough it is to stay 100% positive all day long (for 3 months!) and persist with PW when 'reality' is proving otherwise. Sending you all good wishes.