Thank you so much, I just watched the first one and it was helpful. I will look up the second one now. I also experienced why we should not talk to our friends who are uninformed about LOA about our journeys because they just don't understand how it works or why we would want our exes back. One friend told me yesterday that he just wanted to sleep with me and didn't want a commitment (I don't even think she's even met him) and it really stung. And based on the fact that he hadn't reached out yet, his sister in law told me that it was time to start letting go of him and move forward without the notion of reconciliation. So I just felt really defeated yesterday but I'm trying to get myself in a higher vibration today and continue the techniques and just ignore them because what they're saying doesn't matter, the fact that he hasn't come back to me yet doesn't matter, I have proof through all the other stuff that has happened that it is working.

I have struggled with finding the balance of letting go of the outcome though and holding on too tightly to it which I think has both delayed my manifestation and caused me to be too in my head about things and a bit obsessive. I'm going to have to work on taking him off the pedestal and getting my power back a bit more. I do cutting the cord often but maybe I should do it more.

I also wanted to say that I completed most of the exercises from Veronica's 25 day challenge and definitely feel that helped me manifest this! I enjoyed it so much and sad when it was over, and might even start it again. I do a lot of this stuff on my own anyways but it's nice to have the structure. Thank you ladies for your support and kind words, they meant a lot.

Thank you! He also told his sister in law (we are friends) that he ran into me and she said she got the vibe that it was really good to see me. Of course he didn't mention the kiss but him telling her he saw me means I/it was on his mind! I am still not going to contact him and just keep doing what I have been doing from behind the scenes and just know he'll come around on his own. 

You go Queen!   You got him.  He is yours!  Great Story! Thanks for sharing.  You are a love magnet, hence all the attention for other guys.  Enjoy it!  Allow it to make you feel good!

✌️&💝

Update! Saturday night I ran into my ex, well actually I manifested him to appear right in front of me while I was talking to a mutual friend about our respective breakups! 😳 I hadn't seen him in over a month and we've been in no contact still since January. Anyways, we had a really nice catch up and things were going shockingly well. I was shaking with nerves but managed to keep my cool. At the end of the night he offered to walk me out to my lyft and while we were hugging goodbye he hugged me really tight and then get this, KISSED ME ON THE MOUTH. Not a full on kiss but not just a peck either. It was a very intimate magic moment. I was gobsmacked but kissed him back twice and he laughed because my car had arrived and I had to go but I told him I would like to continue the conversation and that we should talk and he said ok but seemed hesitant. I haven't heard from him since but I know this is the first step to him testing the waters and reaching back out. This was such a bold move for him and I know it's because I've been doing BWD, PW and the Love Spell on him relentlessly! I also scripted months ago that he would give me a big hug and a kiss at this exact bar and tell me he was so happy to see me. This stuff works y'all, it's bananas. I'm a bit disappointed he has not followed up yet but this interaction was leaps and bounds from the last time when he almost left without even saying bye to me and this time I got a sweet kiss! I was buzzing for two days!

My ex and I have been broken up for almost 4 months now. There is a lot of love and passion and a lot of magic moments there, but he is going through a lot of change like quitting a longterm job to pursue a music career in a touring band, moving his things into storage and crashing with me, living like a vagabond, pretty fresh out of a traumatic longterm relationship when we met, going through some intense family stuff, etc. Long story short, our circumstances to start a relationship were less than ideal and we broke up 5 months into it and he moved out.

After a lot of arguments in cramped quarters, he ended the relationship under the premise that maybe he just needed "some time". I took it really hard but I initiated no contact for 21 days and then reached back out and we hung out once, but I got frustrated at his resistance so told him it was clear he needed more time. He just stopped responding to me altogether after that and I didn't reach out again.

We have a lot of mutual friends and run with the same crowd & go to the same bars, so running into him is pretty inevitable. I saw him at a show a few weeks later and we were cordial. He told me I looked good but we barely spoke otherwise.  He's on the road with his band all the time now, and came back for a week or so before leaving again this past weekend. I've been doing pw twice a day (sometimes more) since January 27 as well as lots of scripting and visualizing. On the 6th night of doing the love spell, I ran into him at another show. I already had plans to go, but knew there was a possibility he might be there because he's friends with the band as well. His sister in law tipped off he was going, so I prepared myself as much as possible. Somehow I felt calm and confident and things went as well as they could have under the circumstances. I was feeling awesome because I just manifested a badass dream job and was excited to tell him about it. I actually visualized myself telling him about it and him being excited for me, which happened in real life so that was pretty cool. He told me he was really glad things had turned around for me and it was about time that happened. He stood next to me the whole time and our interaction was friendly. He was still pretty guarded and I could feel him tense up a bit when we hugged though. I was disappointed that he didn't ask me any questions and that I was the one doing all of the initiating and that he almost left without saying bye to me, but I was determined to have a positive experience so I didn't let that happen!

Sometimes I get down but I know all this stuff I'm doing is working and I'm getting through to him even though it's taking time and he hasn't initiated contact with me since the end of December. I am just trying to trust that the universe is taking care of it and divine timing is at work. I know it's working because I have manifested at least 5 guys from my past back into my life since I've been at it LOL. I've also got a new cute boy from work chasing me and I tried to entertain that but just realized I am just not ready to date anyone else and want to focus on me and getting my love back. People in general, even strangers, are just nicer to me and I've been getting a lot of random gifts from my friends. I see 11:11 every day, sometimes twice a day. I carry rose quartz in my pocket at all times, listen to subliminals, meditate, practice gratitude every day, spend a lot of time with my family and friends and am exercising and getting out into nature and enjoying the beauty that is all around us and just try to keep my vibrations high. I love Brad Yates' EFT tapping videos on YouTube. This forum and Veronica's is helping me so much. Thank you all so much for being here and being supportive. I'm so thankful I found you all and LOA. I'm wishing you all the best of luck in getting your partners back and manifesting all of your dreams.