Then don't be intimate with him, and see how he reacts to that.
If he gets annoyed and irritated, then he probably only want a fwb relationship.
In the meantime, try using pw and visualisations on him.
Be funny and casual when you are together. Make him see how great you are, and that you are totally worth a real relationship.
But don't rush him. Let him take the he needs to see it, and just have fun with him.
Hi everyone, i have an update. I reached out to him a few weeks ago, probably about a week after my first post to let him know that I still had a lot of his stuff. I didnt expect much of a reply and i even offered to mail it to him, just in case he didnt want to see me. BUT to my surprise, he was SO EXCITED to talk to me. He told me that he didnt reach out because he didnt think I would respond. Long story short, we have been intimate a few times since then. He has told me he still loves me and that he misses me, but he doesnt want a reltionship because he is scared that we are going to break up again. I told him I cant continue to be intimate with him then, and then he said "lets try dating casually, we wont be as serious as we were before, but im not taking that possibility off the table". I don't know how to take this. Is he just saying that because I told him I dont want to be intimate anymore, and is changing the wording so that we can still be intimate? or,... i dont even know. Ladies, what should I do? I dont want to be intimate because I feel like this is turning into a FWB situation and that is not what I want from him. He has been very honest and told me that he hasnt been intimate with anyone else and doesnt want to be... I really dont know what to think or what to do. Any advice will be greatly appreciated!!!
Will you please keep me updated? I look forward to hearing about your success!!!!
Yes! I' mean I've read on this board I think that usually when you have good dreams like that it just means that your vibrations and subconscious are on the right path or something like that? Though, I hope it means that things are going to be happening soon for the both of us
That's amazing! And I know exactly how you feel! I really hope this is a sign. I hope someone can provide insight for the both of us!!
I can tell you that I've been having very similar dreams about my ex. When we broke up he told me he wasn't in love with me anymore (but my gut is still telling me otherwise) and for the last maybe 2 weeks i've been having very vivid dreams about him. A lot of the dreams turn sexual but they start off with cuddling that feels SO real and just nice little things and hearing him say he loves me and he misses me and he's sorry and sometimes I even wake up crying. It's very confusing. I'm hoping it means good things will be happening soon!
Good afternoon everyone!!! I love reading all your stories and I truly love the camaraderie that we all share! I think I finally have progress, please let me know what you guys think. 1.5 months ago, the love of my life broke up with me. For reference, we're both30 years old, so "love" isn't something that we just throw around. Our attraction was instant and perfect. Never had either of us ever felt this way. Well, with great passion, comes great responsibility. The both of us being madly in love, caused a lot of fighting. 1.5 months ago, we broke up. I was devastated. A month ago, I started doing PW, with no obvious signs of it working, but I truly believed that it was working. Well last night, during my PW, I had the strangest feeling and could not sleep. it was the strangest feeling, I was perfectly comfortable and at peace but I felt like I was in a trance the entire night,. It was the strangest feeling. When I "woke" up, it was time to go to work, but i very vividly remembered my "dream". In my dream, I saw him and he told me how much he missed me and how much he loves me. When I asked him why he didn't contact me he replied with "why do you think? It is hard for me too". I know this is hard to explain, but I woke up feeling like it really did happen- as a matter a fact, it took me a little while to get my bearings because I was very confused as to why I was in my room and not talking to him. I am usually a VERY hard sleeper and i seldom dream, and when I do dream, I don't remember them. So, this was VERY strange.
Can anyone provide any insight? Was I genuinely talking to him through my subconscious? Does this mean my manifestation is getting closer? Any advice is greatly appreciated!
Thank you for all of your love,
Sueboo