daisychain wrote:

Jen wrote:

Daisychain, just yesterday, I blocked him from my phone and although we disconnected as friends on Facebook when we broke up, I also blocked him from there too so he couldn't even search my name.

We work together (separate floors) but I've been off work for the past five days so it will be interesting to see if he comes up to say hello tomorrow.

On a side note, I had long hair and today I cut it into a bob. I was in a real f*ck it attitude, haha.

Made me feel better 😁

We are still friends on facebook and messenger he's just choosing for whatever reason not to read my messages which is really confusing as everything was good when he left and he was even trying to come back that night after work but couldn't get a lift.  We were even having a laugh and his last message was a 'hahaha'!

Keep us posted on what happens at work and if he comes up!

Haha you go girl.....I love when the f*** it attitude takes over, wish mine would do it more often lol.  Just had a thought maybe mine is in shock as last time he had seen me I was about 2 stone heavier and my hair was dark! I'm now 2 stone lighter and blonde haha!

He came up to see me and we spent a couple of hours together.

I believe the whispering technique (combined with Lanie's techniques) really works.

I did it again this morning and he was at my desk waiting for me before I even arrived and we virtually spent the entire day together.

Hope this helps keep you all motivated to keep going 💛💪🏻
 

mrstkg wrote:

Oohh. Good idea! Think I'll do the same Though he and I haven't spoken in months we are able to see each others activity on social media and I can see he is in my TOP faces that pop up, meaning he's always looking at my profile (tbh that's what's kept me going even though I deactivated my profile once for a month, logged back in, guess whose the 1st face in pymk and TOP searches (I'm not the one searching him, well I do, on a fake account lol) HIM.in other words he was looking like crazy for me) but I have to stop relying on that. He called me once I ignored him and I wish I hadn't, but ONWARD.

gini wrote:

mrstkg wrote:

Thanks Gini! I feel that too. I think all these "others" is creating the path for the POI.I also think he's stubborn too. We're both very fixed signs.

Today onwards I'm going to visualise him as someone who is not stubborn at all or even think of him that way . He will be someone who cannot hold back his feelings for me whenever he feels them..Thinking that he is stubborn will make him more stubborn..  

Yeah mrstkg! You should definitely try it and keep us updated.

About FB, if I were you and if I felt that my POI was looking at my profile or searching for me then i wouldn't stop relying on it because it is a very pleasant feeling.. Like, someone I am crazy about is equally crazy for me .. I would keep that feeling and even magnify it so that i would feel happy . It would eventually raise my vibes. plus he may start searching for you even more ! 

Oohh. Good idea! Think I'll do the same Though he and I haven't spoken in months we are able to see each others activity on social media and I can see he is in my TOP faces that pop up, meaning he's always looking at my profile (tbh that's what's kept me going even though I deactivated my profile once for a month, logged back in, guess whose the 1st face in pymk and TOP searches (I'm not the one searching him, well I do, on a fake account lol) HIM.in other words he was looking like crazy for me) but I have to stop relying on that. He called me once I ignored him and I wish I hadn't, but ONWARD.

gini wrote:

mrstkg wrote:

Thanks Gini! I feel that too. I think all these "others" is creating the path for the POI.I also think he's stubborn too. We're both very fixed signs.

gini wrote:

I have the same question. I imagined my POI sending me a text message saying that he cant get me out of his mind and theres this other guy who texted me when i was doing my visualisation and he wrote that i missed you a lot during the weekend. What i think is that our POIs get these messages but they're struggling not to send it to us by putting some resistance.I doubt that they will be able to hold back for so long. depends on your POI.. mine is very stubborn !
I think others respond because we send out very positive vibrations.. we become more attractive to others.. I've felt it.. Its crazy.. Go for the activist event and have fun !! Im sure your POI will bring you flowers very soon  

Today onwards I'm going to visualise him as someone who is not stubborn at all or even think of him that way . He will be someone who cannot hold back his feelings for me whenever he feels them..Thinking that he is stubborn will make him more stubborn..  

Hahaha while I do prefer the attention in person, I don't see him in person much and he's just moved to the other side of the world (temporairily) I did the whispering technique after I commented but like you with the time zone differences I'm hoping **fingers crossed** that I'll recieve a message from him overnight. If I haven't then Ive written down what ive whispered and I'll again tomorrow morning/afternoon until I hear from him. Judging by your results its very powerful, im looking forward to any results.

mrstkg wrote:

Really? I'd take him loving on me in person over social media any day! There are married folks who avoid each other on social media so who cares about that! Lol. To answer: I did around 11:30 am received a text around 4pm and an invite from the guy in my dream around 8pm give or take (diff zones than this forum time)

Anti-Social wrote:

Wow thats great to hear!! My POI is really friendly/sweet/affectionate (gives me lots of hugs) in person yet ignores my existence on social media, very confusing/frustrating so I might have to check out this whispering technique. How after do you do it before seeing results??

Jen wrote:

Wow, that's incredible.

I seriously wish I knew why they run away and hide.

My one has ceased all form of contact exactly a week ago today.

Last week, he was all over me and since then, dead silence.

It really messes with your mind and I think we have every right to question them why they do that.

It's just mean.

In my case, I feel he misled me by telling me how much he loves me, wants to move back in with me and got very intimate with me only to disappear without any reasonable explanation.

That's not ok, in my opinion but I love him so will be patient.

I'm still non the wiser as to why they run and hide Jen!

I know in my gut mine has some kind of feelings for me and i'm trying to keep positive and tell myself this is why he's gone quiet on me after we had a fab time together, got on even better than we had before.

I'm avoiding facebook etc at the moment to stop me checking up if he's read my messages from week ago and i'm slowly getting my control back over the situation and continuing to do PW etc....I know he'll be back!

Wow thats great to hear!! My POI is really friendly/sweet/affectionate (gives me lots of hugs) in person yet ignores my existence on social media, very confusing/frustrating so I might have to check out this whispering technique. How after do you do it before seeing results??

Thanks Gini! I feel that too. I think all these "others" is creating the path for the POI.I also think he's stubborn too. We're both very fixed signs.

gini wrote:

I have the same question. I imagined my POI sending me a text message saying that he cant get me out of his mind and theres this other guy who texted me when i was doing my visualisation and he wrote that i missed you a lot during the weekend. What i think is that our POIs get these messages but they're struggling not to send it to us by putting some resistance.I doubt that they will be able to hold back for so long. depends on your POI.. mine is very stubborn !
I think others respond because we send out very positive vibrations.. we become more attractive to others.. I've felt it.. Its crazy.. Go for the activist event and have fun !! Im sure your POI will bring you flowers very soon