Evey2222 wrote:
Wow, Reading back on this over a year later, I cannot believe everything that has happened and what I have manifested when I started to apply self love and putting myself and my happiness first. In the first post where I said I was going on a date with a really nice guy, well he has turned out to be the love of my life. We are now living together, he respects me and loves me unconditionally. He is completely the opposite to all the men I have ever been with. He is kind, generous, sweet, loyal, he makes me laugh every day, he gets on with my family. We are looking for a new house in the new year, he wants to marry me and have kids. Our connection is amazing, he is my best friend and my soul mate. And funnily enough, the guy who I was trying to get back, is still trying to get back with me, so the techniques definitely work, I just found that my new guy was soooo much better and what I needed and wanted in a man. He makes me so incredibly happy and I never though I would get this far with someone. I used the whisper technique, a lot of Lanies techniques I still sometime use, but it definitely works when you let go and chill with it all! I just wanted to post this and let everyone know that sometimes, the person you really want back might not be right for you, and you can manifest whoever you want, and whatever you want. I know now if I broke up with my current partner I could get my ex back, but I prefer my partner now and he treats me so much better than my ex could even be capable of. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you can have whatever you want!! xxx also, remote seduction is so much fun to use, just gets them going haha xx
I am so happy for you! You could most likely have you ex back but you have chosen someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated and I'm glad you're so happy. It definitely works better when you let go but I know it's the hardest thing in the world to do. Good luck to you sweetheart! :-)
Super happy for you. I had my "I don't care" moment recently. I don't think I've moved into self love but I know I've had a few epiphanies. Did I spell that correctly?
One amazing thing happened concerning my apartment. I've been wanting to move on. I feel I'm stagnating, but I was so afraid I wouldn't be able to find another apartment at this price (can you hear the scarcity and lack?) So I gave notice, decided something better would come along, and generally got into a mind set in which I could take or leave my place. My landlady came back and offered to take 150.00 a month off my rent. Now I'm going to save some money and move when I do find a better place.
Its the same thing with my guy...he's gone. Oh well. YAY. I just don't care. I am not super happy with men presently, but again, at least I am in a much more neutral place.
PS I am kinda disappointed, none of the PW techniques worked for me....not turning heads in stores or picking up other men. I thought it was a fun thing to do and I had fun trying. But after so many failures? It has lost its appeal. I did come back to share the "I don't care" story....because it brought me to a pretty nice place. Trying to relax about everything else in life...just not care too much.
Wow, Reading back on this over a year later, I cannot believe everything that has happened and what I have manifested when I started to apply self love and putting myself and my happiness first. In the first post where I said I was going on a date with a really nice guy, well he has turned out to be the love of my life. We are now living together, he respects me and loves me unconditionally. He is completely the opposite to all the men I have ever been with. He is kind, generous, sweet, loyal, he makes me laugh every day, he gets on with my family. We are looking for a new house in the new year, he wants to marry me and have kids. Our connection is amazing, he is my best friend and my soul mate. And funnily enough, the guy who I was trying to get back, is still trying to get back with me, so the techniques definitely work, I just found that my new guy was soooo much better and what I needed and wanted in a man. He makes me so incredibly happy and I never though I would get this far with someone. I used the whisper technique, a lot of Lanies techniques I still sometime use, but it definitely works when you let go and chill with it all! I just wanted to post this and let everyone know that sometimes, the person you really want back might not be right for you, and you can manifest whoever you want, and whatever you want. I know now if I broke up with my current partner I could get my ex back, but I prefer my partner now and he treats me so much better than my ex could even be capable of. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you can have whatever you want!! xxx also, remote seduction is so much fun to use, just gets them going haha xx
kschmeck wrote:
Thank you, Evey, for sharing this very personal story! You are an awesome and inspiring person, love! I will take your advice and work on myself! The man that gets you is a very lucky one!!! 😊
I am really glad I could help! Thank you so much that is very kind xxx
Thank you, Evey, for sharing this very personal story! You are an awesome and inspiring person, love! I will take your advice and work on myself! The man that gets you is a very lucky one!!! 😊
kschmeck wrote:
Evey2222 wrote:
I am finally in a place of detachment and realising my own self worth! I have a date tomorrow night with a really nice guy, my love is still contacting me but until he steps up I am getting on with it.
If all these coaches have taught me anything its that self love is so important. Lanie, Veronica, Agnes, Neville, etc. Everyone I have watched and read, it radiates around self love! I am so grateful for my life and the people in it. I think having Reiki healing really helped clear some negative blocks as well, and also recently being more accepting towards things.
I am finally having fun with the techniques, not worrying about what is going to happen and FINALLY accepting I am enough to be loved!! when you let go and open yourself to all possibilities it enables you to be free and not consumed with worry and anxiety (something that took me ages to beat!)
Independant ladies we can do this haha!! thought I would spread some happy positive vibes to everyone!!
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This is so great to read! But how exactly did you do it! Especially the part to feel that you're enough to be loved and that you accept every possible outcome, getting past worries and anxieties...
I am so tired and fed up with everything right now... I am tired of being single and just can't stand the thought that I will be for another year or so... I want my life to change really bad and I feel like I'm wasting my time here waiting for something good to come while I'm getting older and older...
I could really use some self love, happiness and hope, that everything turns out positively...
Thank you, I think it was the way that I was being treated by certain people, especially my dad. It made me realise I don't deserve to put up with it and that I do deserve love and happiness. I have always never felt good enough, and this showed in all my relationships. And mainly because my dad is the way he is. I love him to bits but he isn't capable of love, he judges my looks, my weight, my career. Nothing is ever good enough for him. I researched a lot in changing my limiting beliefs because I suffer from depression so it was essential for me to find a way to heal my heart and mind in order for me to be happy. The more research I did the more I realised that it comes from me and the way I feel about myself. I want true love, I deserve true love, and I will get true love. I just didn't want to feel bad about myself anymore, so I just decided that enough is enough. I accept that my dad loves me in his own way, I accept that my exes weren't good enough for me and it is their problem not mine. I also had an incident a few years ago, I was sexually assaulted by a guy I thought I could trust and it really altered my mind. I blamed myself and thought the only way to get a man was through sex. When it isn't. We are all special in our own ways and deserve to be treated with respect and love as long as we respect and love ourselves. It was more a conscious decision that I no longer wanted to feel like shit and was going to do anything in my power to make myself better and heal myself. My aim went from wanting my ex back to wanting true happiness and abundance, so that motivated me to start within and heal myself! It is so important to love yourself and know your worth in all areas in your life! I hope this helped. I did do techniques like write down 10 things I love about myself and repeat it, and I always affirm to myself things such as "I am enough, I am loved, I am trust, I am deserving, I am special, I am beautiful, etc." Agnes Vivarelli on youtube helped me too x
Evey2222 wrote:
I am finally in a place of detachment and realising my own self worth! I have a date tomorrow night with a really nice guy, my love is still contacting me but until he steps up I am getting on with it.
If all these coaches have taught me anything its that self love is so important. Lanie, Veronica, Agnes, Neville, etc. Everyone I have watched and read, it radiates around self love! I am so grateful for my life and the people in it. I think having Reiki healing really helped clear some negative blocks as well, and also recently being more accepting towards things.
I am finally having fun with the techniques, not worrying about what is going to happen and FINALLY accepting I am enough to be loved!! when you let go and open yourself to all possibilities it enables you to be free and not consumed with worry and anxiety (something that took me ages to beat!)
Independant ladies we can do this haha!! thought I would spread some happy positive vibes to everyone!!
xxxxxxxxxxx
This is so great to read! But how exactly did you do it! Especially the part to feel that you're enough to be loved and that you accept every possible outcome, getting past worries and anxieties...
I am so tired and fed up with everything right now... I am tired of being single and just can't stand the thought that I will be for another year or so... I want my life to change really bad and I feel like I'm wasting my time here waiting for something good to come while I'm getting older and older...
I could really use some self love, happiness and hope, that everything turns out positively...
HH wrote:
Evey2222 this is amazing ))) thank you for sharing!!
Can you explain a little more about reiki healing?
Thank you! So Reiki healing is for stress reduction and relaxation, it is also used for healing as well. It is basically to do with life force energy, they try and clear out any negativity and help heal your mind, any pain you are in emotionally and physically. Its known as spiritually guided life force! Some people believe it, some people don't. They help align all your chakra's. Hope this helps! x
unicornsnrainbows wrote:
Evey2222 wrote:
unicornsnrainbows wrote:
Great things are on the horizon for you!
Thank you! For all of us!! How weird I posted it at 11:11am and I didn't even realise lol!
and at the time of this post, you had "154" posts, which has been my special soulmate number for 30 years.
No way! Thats spooky! It's a sign of happiness and positivity coming our way I think 11:11 is the twin flame number too!
Evey2222 this is amazing ))) thank you for sharing!!
Can you explain a little more about reiki healing?
Blue Deer wrote:
yes you are soo right. Thanks for posting xx
Thank you! No worries! xx
yes you are soo right. Thanks for posting xx
unicornsnrainbows wrote:
Great things are on the horizon for you!
Thank you! For all of us!! How weird I posted it at 11:11am and I didn't even realise lol!
I am finally in a place of detachment and realising my own self worth! I have a date tomorrow night with a really nice guy, my love is still contacting me but until he steps up I am getting on with it.
If all these coaches have taught me anything its that self love is so important. Lanie, Veronica, Agnes, Neville, etc. Everyone I have watched and read, it radiates around self love! I am so grateful for my life and the people in it. I think having Reiki healing really helped clear some negative blocks as well, and also recently being more accepting towards things.
I am finally having fun with the techniques, not worrying about what is going to happen and FINALLY accepting I am enough to be loved!! when you let go and open yourself to all possibilities it enables you to be free and not consumed with worry and anxiety (something that took me ages to beat!)
Independant ladies we can do this haha!! thought I would spread some happy positive vibes to everyone!!
xxxxxxxxxxx