hi lalinha I really hope we can all do this together and get whatever we want at the end!

Thank you all for the kind words I really appreciate it!!! Thank you Ratpack I will definitely read the book and follow the steps to manifest who I want. and Woodyluv! Your situation gave me high hopes I really hope I can get him back of course it won't be easy even if he does want me later on I won't take him back that easily I really want to make sure that his feeling are real and not something I just manifested in my mind. Noeshe, thank you for the kind words but I am not familiar with all the abbreviations in the forum yet. Can you please explain to me what PW is and how it works?
I really appreciate everything you all said I don't have girlfriends who can support me in these kind of situations. I am truly grateful and optimistic about the future

Welcome Sads!  No Judgement Here!!  You are a Queen and deserve whatever your heart desires.  I totally understand how you feel because I've been there.  My POI was married at one point when we were reunited after years.  However, like you I loved him first.  My first step was to work on myself.  Learn to love myself.  Work on loving yourself and knowing you deserve whatever you desire. 
Yes, you have the power to attract him back into your life. Distance doesn't matter and neither does she. (Not being insensitive, however, she is not apart of your reality going forward so ignore her) Script your perfect ending.  Write all down, every little detail.  It will make you smile and feel good.   Browse through the forum and you will find a lot of techniques that we all use that move us forward, uplift our vibrations and keep us positive.
Be Positively Selfish!!  Being positively selfish will allow you to do, have and be exactly what you want, bring joy and happiness into your life.
✌️&❤️

Hi I'm sads, I sent Lanie a private message by email and I got an auto-reply recommending that I join this forum. Please try not to judge me I am extremely insecure and this is my first post on a forum EVER. I really need someone to help me. I ordered the book "how to make him burn with desire" from amazon and still waiting for it to arrive. It is going to take two to three weeks for the book to get here since I live quiet far from the US. I tried to wait for the book so I can start applying the law of attraction in my life but I am just suffering with so much pain that I thought maybe I can write a post here. Yes, I am trying to attract a specific person by using the LOA but the guy I am trying to attract recently got married (less than a month ago). I was wondering if I can attract a married man using the LOA and I know it sounds really unfair to his wife but he was in love with me first. I don't know if he still is but the last time I saw him he was already engaged and when he saw me his legs got weak and he fell down the stairs! These things never happen to me but all the signs and hints I've been getting for years just proved to me that he does like me a lot but we don't live in the same country. But just saying that this guy likes me is says a lot because I am the kind of person who is soooo insecure that I would never believe that a guy would like me even if he jumped at me and kissed me. I don't want to defend him but he is a very shy guy and maybe that was the reason he kept staring and never approached me but he is so shy that his marriage was actually arranged by his uncle. His uncle introduced them to each other last year and they were not getting along because its just awkward to meet someone and then marry them straightaway. I was shocked to hear that he was getting married in March of this year from a family friend. I cried all night and then went to work the next day pretending that everything is fine. I can't show my parents how depressed I am since I already see a therapist on a weekly basis and take anti depressants daily sometimes more than twice a day. I know that I can only find happiness with him and I swear I am not a horrible person I even pray for the girl to marry someone else that will love her from the first sight and take care of her and be a loving husband but not this guy I know it's selfish but I want him for myself. He is very attractive though and I know she is in love with him too but it's so unfair! I don't want to sound ungrateful a lot of men find me attractive but he is the only one I want..

I really hope someone can help me without saying that it is not meant to be..the law of attraction is supposed to attract anything you want