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4/26/2017 11:51 am
Lj,
I've had that experience also, plus I would pop out of the meditation with random thought of worry. And know what I realized was that I was in a state of stress. Stressing that he wasn't hearing me; ignoring me. So I took a break and meditated on loving myself and seeing myself in relaxing places like laying on the beach. Try using the techniques on your self, seeing yourself in places you love and sending yourself all the love you send him. Also look through the section of the forum where the ladies share other techniques and ideas for connecting to yourself and POI. Sometimes we just need a change of pace/scenery.
Your efforts are not lost. Lanie speaks of The message is like a cloud that will hang over your POI's head until it is received.
Relax Queen.... I feel your stress and worry. She feels it, even if you take a break.
Sending you ❤️,✌️,☀️
4/26/2017 1:48 am
Woodyluv wrote:
Lj,
Don't worry about seeing her clearly... Relax with it because you cant get it wrong. It will still be effective even if you don't see her clearly at first. If it makes you feel better, try looking at a picture before you start PW. Although like I said, you can not get it wrong. Your POI will feel it. She feels it.
✌️&❤️
But lately I can't even see any thing but darkness. When I mediate, there's no person or anything standing in front of me. Just darkness and the conversations in my head.
I can't get the mentalt pictures up.
What do I do? I feel like this is messing up what I've been doing so far. And I hate to see all my efforts go down the drain.
Have I lost my mediation abilities all of the sudden?
4/24/2017 2:13 pm
Lj,
Don't worry about seeing her clearly... Relax with it because you cant get it wrong. It will still be effective even if you don't see her clearly at first. If it makes you feel better, try looking at a picture before you start PW. Although like I said, you can not get it wrong. Your POI will feel it. She feels it.
✌️&❤️
4/24/2017 2:06 pm
Does anyone have any advise for me? I feel like I have trouble seeing my poi clearly when I visualize, and I can't seem to focus on her eyes. It's like when you try to focus on an "eye worm". Her face just seems to move.
It's kinda annoying coz I use a lot of energy getting focus.
4/24/2017 10:59 am
That's awesome Anti-Social!!! So inspiring! You are driving him crazy... Keep it up! I'm also using the Whisper Technique and I know it's driving my POI crazy.... I feel like he's scared to take the leap and contact me. However, he will very soon!! I took a break from all techniques because I was way too attached to the outcome. And that's ok because I know he still can't get me off his mind. I claim it! You're claiming it too! And that's inspiration for us all!
✌️&💕
4/23/2017 10:31 pm
Thanks everyone! Here's a link for the 'game'
Not only have I been using the 'game' with regards to my POI but also for a job ive just applied for and a course I'm enrolling in.(yet to have success with either so far but I have faith)
I just imagined myself walking up behind him (he's staring out a window), tucking a loose strand of hair behind his ear before whispering, then walking away.
Its been a month since I last spoke to him, I did send him a message a week ago (the one he's replied) and while he said he's been really busy its obvious he's been trying to go No Contact!!
4/23/2017 10:00 pm
Oh my gosh!! Really? So cool to see its you! 
so give us the details on the game. Do you script it or say it out loud?
After 6 days of using both the whsiper technique and playing the 'wouldn't it be nice if....' game 2-3 times a day (say that phrase, end it with something positive then let it go)
eg my exact words were 'wouldn't it be nice if **insert POI's name** replied to my message' he FINALLY replied (side note my POI is useless at social media to say the least) so both techniques DO work. Even at the end of the message he put a heart emoji (❤) and the kiss one (💋) (with the lipstick on it)
**edit** the message i sent him was about the concert his missed out on coming with me to (and also his temporary move) He replied "I wish we could have" about the concert!!
4/23/2017 9:43 pm
How long was it since he last contacted you?
Do you do the whispering technique with the whole white room/white garden/rocking chair scenario or just imagine the act of whispering?
4/23/2017 8:56 pm
Happy for you !!! xx
4/23/2017 8:45 pm
Where do I find out how to do the technique?
4/23/2017 8:16 pm
After 6 days of using both the whsiper technique and playing the 'wouldn't it be nice if....' game 2-3 times a day (say that phrase, end it with something positive then let it go)
eg my exact words were 'wouldn't it be nice if **insert POI's name** replied to my message' he FINALLY replied (side note my POI is useless at social media to say the least) so both techniques DO work. Even at the end of the message he put a heart emoji (❤) and the kiss one (💋) (with the lipstick on it)
**edit** the message i sent him was about the concert his missed out on coming with me to (and also his temporary move) He replied "I wish we could have" about the concert!!
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