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5/05/2017 2:32 am
Well last night I was at my friends wedding, she's the one who has been a godsend to me since I discovered he was also seeing another girl at the same time. Had an amazing night, laughing, fooling around taking loads of pictures etc. I'd made a conscious decision to stay off facebook for a few days, help clear my head and stop me looking to see when he was last online etc.
Anyway last night with me and my friends taking photos etc we were putting them on facebook and messaging them back and forward to each other so I decided to go back on facebook. When I was on I noticed that he was online and showing as being active to me again, I resisted the urge to message him lol. He went invisible after a bit but then again showed as active 
5/01/2017 11:48 am
Woodyluv wrote:
He's finally read the messages, I noticed yesterday that he had read them in the morning and of all times he read them at 11:11 his time! Looks like chat still turned off so he obviously has his reasons whatever they may be and I just have to be patient and let him come to me.....patience isn't my strong point but I have to dig deep and find some!
Restarting the love spell first week tonight, wish me luck!
YES!! Stick with it! Be Positive... Don't worry or concern yourself with his reasons. He will figure it out. You are driving him crazy. I know Patience is hard. Remember to take of yourself Queen so you are ready for him when he returns. Take a careless attitude. It will drive him to you.
I'm sticking with it Woody but It's so hard sometimes! I found myself crying out of anger and frustration the other night at him ignoring me!
Today I took myself off to the gym, my PT has done a programme for me so that's what i'm trying to focus on from now.....ME! I just need to get him out of my head.....but the bugger keeps popping in all the time!
I hope I'm driving him crazy lol. Any suggestions on how to take a careless attitude?
5/01/2017 11:15 am
He's finally read the messages, I noticed yesterday that he had read them in the morning and of all times he read them at 11:11 his time! Looks like chat still turned off so he obviously has his reasons whatever they may be and I just have to be patient and let him come to me.....patience isn't my strong point but I have to dig deep and find some!
Restarting the love spell first week tonight, wish me luck!
YES!! Stick with it! Be Positive... Don't worry or concern yourself with his reasons. He will figure it out. You are driving him crazy. I know Patience is hard. Remember to take of yourself Queen so you are ready for him when he returns. Take a careless attitude. It will drive him to you.
4/30/2017 4:06 pm
He's finally read the messages, I noticed yesterday that he had read them in the morning and of all times he read them at 11:11 his time! Looks like chat still turned off so he obviously has his reasons whatever they may be and I just have to be patient and let him come to me.....patience isn't my strong point but I have to dig deep and find some!
Restarting the love spell first week tonight, wish me luck!
4/28/2017 5:37 pm
I kind of thought this may be why Lj but I'm not sure if it's just wishful thinking on my part!
4/28/2017 5:29 pm
Maybe he's trying to ignore how he feels about you?
Maybe it's getting to him and he doesn't know how to handle it, other than cutting off contact?
4/28/2017 4:06 pm
I've worked out the reason he's not replying or reading......he's blocked me on chat, whether just me or he's turned it off for everyone I have no idea!
I feel so stupid thinking things would get better after meeting up a few weeks ago and then bang he's turned off his chat and won't even read my messages from just before I came home and a few after I got home. No more will be sent!
I know I shouldn't but it's really getting to me tonight.....so much that I even cried. Annoyed with myself for putting myself in this position and also still feeling confused as to why he's doing this! I mean things were worse end of last year and he didn't do this, he still spoke to me so why now after we had a really good time together 
4/24/2017 1:16 pm
Thanks Woody....I have got this....I have got this (keep telling myself lol). I'm all over his mind and heart, he's coming!
Sending you love and positive energy right back at ya 
4/24/2017 11:09 am
Awesomeness Queen! Sending you love and positive energy cause you got this! 😍😎
4/24/2017 10:15 am
For the past weeks I've been seeing 11, 111, 1111 all the time but today has really taken the biscuit! Every time I look at something it's staring back at me lol.
Cut short my break at work and as I came up the stairs someone was getting into the lift and just as I passed their phone started ringing with the messenger ringtone......same one I hear when my love calls me 😁
4/23/2017 5:51 pm
You are right, I do have him already and he can't resist me, he's thinking about me all the time, poor sod lol
I tend to script a scene in my head but might give your suggestion of writing it a go, sounds like a really good idea and i'll give it a go tomorrow
Queen haha love it! Have patience girl you've got this, he'll be back and messaging me before I know it! Thanks Woody
4/23/2017 5:42 pm
Daisychain,
No wishful thinking here.... You have him already. Poor thing.... He cant resist you right now. He's already back with you.
I understand it's hard... When it gets hard for me (as it does for most of us), I script a short scene of us. I even carry a special pad in my purse for it. Then when I get home I place it in my love box! Maybe this can help you too. Usually makes me feel good and smile.
You Go Queen!
4/23/2017 5:35 pm
My gut tells me i'm getting through to him and this is why he's pulled away just now. Haha I like that to tell myself "I got ya and you can't get me out of your mind, heart and spirit...you can run but you can't hide Love!".....definitely gonna keep telling myself this.
When we were together the other week he turned up wearing the top I have been visualising him in, i'd never seen him in it only him wearing it in a picture lol. He also done something i'd visualised, won't go into detail but you can imagine what it was to do with lol. He was also quite affectionate as in pulled me in for a cuddle the next day and kissed the top of my head, I thought that was sweet!
So I just gotta be patient and let him catch up and come to me, I know this but it's so hard sometimes! Quite strange actually as this past week i've been feeling really calm and positive about him and me, haven't felt the need to do PW etc I just feel so good and have this feeling in my gut that he's pulled away because of his feelings and he will be back Maybe this is wishful thinking but it's really strong!
4/23/2017 4:46 pm
You are getting through to him. And as Lanie has said, they can pull away... No reason to be concerned or confused because you are getting through to him... (or he wouldn't pull away). Just ignore it and act carefree like you could care less... The Goddess in you has the power to turn him into exactly what you desire without you being concerned about how he's reacting at the moment. Tell yourself "I got ya! And you cant get me out of your mind, heart, and spirit. You can run but you cant hide Love!".
I wouldn't contact him right now. Allow him to catch up... LOL!!
4/23/2017 4:12 pm
Well he's still not read my messages or replied.....hmmmm!
It may sound like i'm panicking seeing as i'm posting in here.....i'm not, i'm just confused as to why seeing as we had a really good time! I just find it strange. I know he enjoyed spending the night and next afternoon with me, I could tell by the way he was, we were talking so much, cuddling watching tv, laughing and the pics of his family he showed me! It's not like he's hiding from me online or blocked me or anything so why do they do this, it's so confusing lol
Anyone shed any light or going through this?
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