AnnanWater wrote:

carly100 wrote:

it's concerning that you haven't heard anything in months of doing the technique though. It's supposed to work "every time" and be "simple and easy", but still no contact. It confuses me, and some ways felt like the technique has been bigged up to be something that it's not. Granted I've just started my journey, but fear creating an unhealthy obsession with my POI

I've been doing it for a year on the same person, with only one bit of contact from him last September. I will not reach out to to him I will let him come to me. It feels discouraging when I think about how long I've been doing this but my feelings for him remain the same and no one else better has come along for me so I will still keep going despite all the lack of evidence that it's working.

 
Hi AnnanWater

Just wanted to say, don’t worry and hang on in there!!!

Dont get caught up in the ‘been doing it for x-amount of time and still heard nothing’ as being a focus based universe, you will only get more of it and hence the “lack” cycle.
Everyone has their own timescales as we all got our stuff on our paths and journeys that we have to sort through to get to where we want to be. The amount of time isn’t an issue and isn’t comparable. No one is better, or faster it’s just all at different stages. Everyone’s journey is unique. That’s what makes it all so special 😊
Also look around and try to find things to appreciate...someone was mentioning that they looked back to 3months ago and they have come so far....this is an awesome way to look at things and get that vibe up and keep it there. (In fact something have just started doing and is working wonders for my vibe!)
Things ARE happening and you HAVE to believe that, it’s just maybe not in the way you want it, hence you do not see, but that doesn’t meant that things are not moving.
Also get him off that pedestal. He isn’t the goal, you and your fabulousness is! He’s just the icing off the very nice self-love cake.
If you ain’t feeling it and/or it feels more like a chore that isn’t working rather than fun. Don’t do it. You’ve done so much and the energy does NOT go to waste.
We build up resistance when we have fear, too much focus on the outcome and the like which just makes everything slow down. Which isn’t bad, just means that there are things to learn, be done and you have to be kind to yourself.
Please don’t think I am being patronising or unkind. Honestly I am not. I am on this journey myself and just had an urge to say something. This is also a reminder to me too. To be honest, am just finding myself and wished I had the lightbulb moment ages ago. However, it’s a beautiful unfolding and had I got what I wanted ages ago, it wouldn’t have worked the same way. Am I there yet and have what I want? Yes and no. My SP? Not yet. However, I am getting myself, am happy and enjoying the process more. I can see better and as a result, not pining over him. Which is damn good progress. To me anyway lol.

Much love to you and all, you are doing fine 🤗♥️X

Hi all you lovely manifestors. I wanted to give you all another quick pick me up.

I discovered this technique almost a year ago, but didn't actually get really into it until the February. I ended things with my POI at the time and really got into the techniques. I did the BWD and PW at least once a day. I also did the love spell. As time went on, I still did the techniques, but not as often. I've already written about how things changed for me, how my mindset and perception of myself changed and such. I've shared how much I believe this is a journey into yourself as much as it is connecting with your POI.

I reconnected with my POI back in May. We starting talking again, it was gradual, every so often, to pretty much daily as of late. Over time, my POI began to tell me some of the things I'd heard him say in my meditations. He was telling me without holding back how beautiful he thinks I am, how sexy he thinks I am etc. Our connection is more open and honest. Last night, we spent the first bit of time together and he continued to tell these things. He also was incredibly open and attentive. He is still the same guy I know, but certainly more open.

So to those of you struggling, I've said it before, find your happy place and the magic falls into place. That's what I needed to do. That's what this journey has done for me. I assure you, I questioned things and wondered too, but brushed those worries to the side and kept going with my belief in the process and my belief in myself. Tonight, I remember back to how last night felt spending time with him and how much fun it was, but also the sweetness he gave me which he'd not shared as much of before.

So, win win for the techniques, me and my guy.

Keep your vibe high and love on yourself! It will all come together. ❤

im sorry ive been too negative. I've drank a fair bit recently and it messes with my emotions and I say stupid things. I'll remain positive and have reason to believe it works as I've read some successes on the forum. Good luck. 

carly100 wrote:

it's concerning that you haven't heard anything in months of doing the technique though. It's supposed to work "every time" and be "simple and easy", but still no contact. It confuses me, and some ways felt like the technique has been bigged up to be something that it's not. Granted I've just started my journey, but fear creating an unhealthy obsession with my POI

Sweet Carly, I agree with the person who posted below this message telling you that the negativity will impact whether or not you bring your POI back.

Truthfully, it is a journey into yourself. I started back in February and since that time, I've never been happier in my life. Ex's have shown up and my vibe is different. The men who I see everyday react differently towards me. Men I pass on the street react different towards me. They can't stop looking. I'm a pretty lady, but I'm no super model, they look because of my energy.

As for the no contact, it was only a matter of time. Just last week actually the message came and I promise you I nearly dropped my phone when I saw it.

Are we back together yet? No. Are we talking? Yes. Are we flirting? Yes. Is it lead by him? Yes. Have I had any big professions of love and how terrible he was and and and? No. It's not even been a week and he's not a man of many words to begin with. 

So to your response, I say that you need to find your belief.

When I look at my life today compared to where I was even just 3 months ago, I've got more passion, more love and more confidence in myself than I probably ever have. Is it the technique? Yup. It sure is because immediately I felt a shift in my life and everything I read about that could happen, did happen.

Enjoy your journey Carly and anyone else who might be questioning it. Find your belief and rid yourself of any negativity and gear up for magical things to happen.

Sincerely, Glovergirl.

carly100 wrote:

it's concerning that you haven't heard anything in months of doing the technique though. It's supposed to work "every time" and be "simple and easy", but still no contact. It confuses me, and some ways felt like the technique has been bigged up to be something that it's not. Granted I've just started my journey, but fear creating an unhealthy obsession with my POI

 
I'm going to be honest with you it's not going to work for you! The negativity that you are giving off about being confused about how things are maybe too good to be true will give you just that! I've been here on this forum for year and a half and there has been many many women on here that have had success including me and a lot of them got their men back but aren't on here anymore because they got their man back and now moving forward with their lives and unfortunately you don't see all those stories because it automatically erases them after a month and a lot of them I really wish you could've seen them all! Anyway my point is you are doing exactly the opposite of what Lanie says to do so you're going to get exactly that!! I'm not trying to be rude sweetie I'm really trying to get you to understand this is something you have to work on this isnt magic this isn't let Lanie wave her wand and you have your man back! You have to understand for you this may take awhile with you especially because you're expecting way too much in a short time and just because someone else gets contacted right away doesn't mean it's not working it means a lot of things he could be going through something or maybe he has a girlfriend and can't act on it right this moment or what I feel is happening is you're not completely understanding how this works! Please please read Lanie's books again and also any of Neville Goddard's books and once you truly get the foundation of these techniques you will continue to hinder yourself and that would be unfortunate!

I think I have fallen a bit for another girl.
Don't get me wrong, I still desire my poi and wish for a beautiful future with her.
But I met a girl through some friends of mine. She's really cute and nice. The thing is... she's 17 years younger than me... 😕
The day after I met her, I dreamt no less than 4 times of her on the same night.
Oh well. But nice to know that I'm not stuck on only my poi anymore 👌😊

Yeah, I have my moments too.  I've wanted to reach and check to see if PW, BWD & the Love Spell are working...  I've even broken down and checked FB, not to long ago.  However, the focus is ME & Loving Me! There other areas in my life that I'm focusing on...  My business is a my main one. 

Totally agree ~ Focus on myself, self-love and my desires is the gift!🎁

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Awesome post Queen!! Just what I needed to hear...  And there are many Queens on here that needed that love and support.   

Funny story-  On Saturday night, I was hanging out with my girlfriend having drinks and laughing.  My ex (not my POI) called me out of the blue to see how I was doing....  I was shocked.  We caught up for a bit  THEN he said would you marry me?  I laughed thinking he was joking.  He wasn't. 😳  He stated that he hasn't met a woman like me.  I said no love, I cant marry you. 

So yes it really does work!  Sending you loving and positive energy, Glovergirl!
✌️&❤️