Thank you for sharing this. I've had a few thoughts that I've been waiting on speaking out. Nothing negative, just realizations. What you just shared is something I've felt should be considered. It's very possible that the target is just simply not what one is asking for. If you're asking for fish you won't be given a rock. On another note the time could just be a matter of the poi coming to terms with his/her feelings. After all these are people with their own belief systems, a way of processing information, and a life BEFORE they began to be influenced on a subconscious level. Depending on what the influencer is changing and creating it very well will take time. A sexual encounter is quicker to manifest than a loving relationship, a relationship is quicker to manifest than a marriage...etc...

hellokitty wrote:

I discontinued with another POI after I reached out to him. Reaching out to him made me realize that he wasn't the man for me.

If waited for PW  to kick in I would've never known how incorrect he was for me. After reaching out to him, we met for nice dinner and he told me that he wanted me to have sex with a man, and he wanted to "clean me up after." That's one of the many things he said he wanted to do to me; which while I don't judge; it's not what I'm into. He saw me as a piece of meat, even though I sent him nothing but loving, romantic messages for several months using PW. and the whisper technique for 4-6 weeks.
If PW isn't working it's for a reason and sometimes it's better to leave a man who doesn't want you alone. 

Wow haha lucky you dodged that one! I still find my POI attractive however he's been trying to hook up with my friend while he has a girlfriend. Behavior like that is YUCK!! My first thought was wondering if he'd try do that if/when I'd successful manifest being with him. That's put me off completely.  

AnnanWater wrote:

I've had the "poof" feelings are gone thing with other exes, but not my POI Iv'e been working on a year yet. Sometimes that feeling happens and other times it doesn't. I saw a guy I once liked, once CRIED over on a dating site today and YUCK! he had gained weight, longer unkempt hair and a beard, so glad I never went out with him.

I cried before because he stood me up on two dates back when I liked him. We never met but did have a sexy skype session. Anyways, now I think he's gross lol. Feelings definitely shut off.

I've had the "poof" feelings are gone thing with other exes, but not my POI Iv'e been working on a year yet. Sometimes that feeling happens and other times it doesn't. I saw a guy I once liked, once CRIED over on a dating site today and YUCK! he had gained weight, longer unkempt hair and a beard, so glad I never went out with him.

I cried before because he stood me up on two dates back when I liked him. We never met but did have a sexy skype session. Anyways, now I think he's gross lol. Feelings definitely shut off.