Thank you. I"m glad that you like it.

Some of the most frequent comments I've seen in this community as a whole(this board and others) is: "When will this work?" "I haven't spoken to him in weeks." "Could it really take a year?"  So many of us focus on time. When you really feel like you want something badly or even need it - it can be very hard to maintain patience. I get and understand that,  I get frustrated at times too. 

I think we give elapsed time it's meaning.  I think that time can make us feel bad because of how we look at it.  This past weekend, I attended a young lady's graduation.  I remember when her mother was pregnant with her, I remember when she graduated Kindergarten, I remember when I babysat her and she was getting into trouble.  She's a young woman now and it happened in the blink of an eye.  Time actually moves fast, it flies. Christmas takes forever to get here for kids December zaps fast for adults. When you look at it this way, perhaps you shouldn't feel so discouraged over how "long" something is taking.  Just think of how quickly your workday passes when you need something done by a deadline.

Another thing to keep you posted is this - out of all the women I know that are in relationships, there's only one of them that has a relationship that I admire. Others are IN the relationship trying to make changes to themselves and the situation which is no fun at all. They aren't better. Isn't it going to be so much better to be able to do the self work, attract your guy and have the relationship and life that is all that you dreamed of? Isn't it worth it?