Thank you all of you for your advice
Will definitely try to get a grip on my emotions and focus more on connecting to him through meditations
What worries me sometimes is that he's pretty stubborn.i think he has been holding back because I've been doing PW on him for quite sometime.it worked when he had his guard down and because of that we met every weekend in June. Now I'm assuming the feelings must have hit him harder and he's the kind of person who will bury his feelings and that's why he's pulling back
Also he's kind of engaged to be married to somebody his family has chosen for him in November but I know he has stronger feelings for me but feels that he can't let his family down.
So this timeline and his behavior is kind of pulling my high spirits down occasionally

I will echo what the others has said. Do not ends him anymore messages. Scarcity creates value. Contact him ONLY through the technique. In the meantime live your life.

I agree, stop messaging. Who cares what he is doing or up to. Focus  on yourself  and getting yourself  to a good place. What I try to remind people of is that as much as we want to focus on our POI,  you can't.  Turn  the focus inward and it will  be a much better result.

I  was in the same place, wondering  if  it worked etc. It does!!!! I even need to remind myself now. I'm  back in contact with  my POI  and have been  for a while,  but I  also wasn't for many months!! 

I wrote about our first meet up, it was on par with how I'd visualized  things. The funny  thing, I'd always  visualized  him in a particular  photo I have of him.  Back pants, white shirt. What I just realized  is he showed up in the  same. At the time, I  didn't even clue in. I also heard many of the things I'd heard him say in my visualizations. 

Let go of wondering  what it all means and stop messaging him. Each time you  do the meditation you are connecting with  him. ❤

Ayushiparmar wrote:

hi,

I wanted to know for how long does it get worse before it gets better?
he sees all the messages i send him but does not reply back. i've been trying to do my meditations but i sometimes lose focus when i see what is happening.
How can I keep my spirits up and my focus on the end goal?
 

1. Stop messaging him completely. Get a grip. If he does not reply, do not waste your time by sending messages to him again and again.

2. Meditate more to get more focus. Look at his picture to help you visualize