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8/03/2017 10:10 pm
Loving all the support. I agree with the feedback. Girl you gotta come in strong. If your insecurities caused issues the best you can't express that to him. If need be save that for this forum or your gfs. Talk to him and figure out whether YOU want him in your life. You got this!!
8/03/2017 4:45 pm
AnnanWater wrote:
He contacted you out of the blue after a year??
No, we've been in contact on and off over the time we've spent apart. I guess what I should've wrote was that he's begun pursuing me again and showing interest and effort. Its funny cause its what I wanted and still do want but now that it's happening I am feeling a bit afraid. I wrote this post very early when I was feeling super emotional, I do know other women are not relevant here all that matters is us but once and awhile insecurities do creep up. Thanks for the kind words and encouragement y'all!
8/03/2017 8:50 am
So my guy has come back and wants to fix what was broken a year ago. I've wanted this moment for so long and if it's possible, I'd want it again but I must admit, I'm currently terrified. I know it's not right, but I can't help but think of all the other women he's probably been with in this time ( he's been through a lot this year so I doubt dating has been a priority) but it still irks me and hurts me. Our relationship did end over his foolish behaviour and my insecurities and he has been working very hard to te closer to me and ive seen the difference, I'm just very scared. I guess I have cold feet. What should I do?
Talk to him? Why let negativity and fear take over your happiest moment? You knew what was wrong, you and him could fix it together. I wouldn't focus on who he has seen this while (if any) and focus on the fact that after all, he stll comes back.
Congrats.
I'd give anything to hear a "hello you" from mine again.
8/03/2017 7:17 am
Congratulations on your success. I would say just enjoy it now and let whatever happens happens. He might not be in your life forever, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the time you do have together. Just be grateful that he is back, and take every day as a gift / blessing - in this way you're continuing your high vibrations. Let go of thinking about the "end" of the relationship, even though that is hard. Take it day by day - you are always free to change your mind if it's not working out - you have free will, you can choose to take him back and work on things together, you can choose to remain friends but want something else in your love life, or you can choose to cut ties and move on, the choice is always up to you. You are the one with the power and holding all the cards, he is the one asking you back. Don't forget that you manifested this, and that you did all of this with your own power. Keep your vibrations high and enjoy your success, however you choose to enjoy it.
8/03/2017 7:00 am
He contacted you out of the blue after a year??
8/03/2017 6:33 am
So my guy has come back and wants to fix what was broken a year ago. I've wanted this moment for so long and if it's possible, I'd want it again but I must admit, I'm currently terrified. I know it's not right, but I can't help but think of all the other women he's probably been with in this time ( he's been through a lot this year so I doubt dating has been a priority) but it still irks me and hurts me. Our relationship did end over his foolish behaviour and my insecurities and he has been working very hard to te closer to me and ive seen the difference, I'm just very scared. I guess I have cold feet. What should I do?
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