I am not a regular here, I just lurk every now and then. I know that "ex-back" is a very sensitive topic and can unleash a wide array of emotions amongst people. I really want to commend Lanie and all of the users here who keep this forum safe and positive. I've lurked and posted on other forums, but it gets so draining to see how they've transpired into soap operas. I like how this forum really sticks to the beauty of LOA as most of the users here are more invested in themselves than their POIs. And there is such a supportive community which the users are helping those that need to, get themselves back. Please continue to do what you're doing Lanie, and please continue to make this a safe place for members to learn about LOA.