chelseagurl wrote:
Yes I used Lanie's method by calling his name 3x, but not exactly in a parking lot. Sometimes I visualise me waiting for him in a fancy restaurant wearing a nice sexy dress, and then seeing him from afar with a bouquet of roses and I call him. I know it has been mentioned hundreds of time and its easier said than done, detachment and letting go are the key. I am still constantly working on being detached and trusting the process but I know everything always works out for me. I also write in my gratitude book all the small and big things he has done for me even throwing a silly joke, I am thankful for that because that's what I wanted in a rekationship. I only not focus on him, but I write every single thing to be thankful for because everyday something good always happen to us, we just have to feel and look for it.
Makes a lot of sense and I have gotten better with showing more gratitude these days too. I am definitely trying to detach more and see what happens. I just want this guy to be under my spell and see what it really feels like...
Yes I used Lanie's method by calling his name 3x, but not exactly in a parking lot. Sometimes I visualise me waiting for him in a fancy restaurant wearing a nice sexy dress, and then seeing him from afar with a bouquet of roses and I call him. I know it has been mentioned hundreds of time and its easier said than done, detachment and letting go are the key. I am still constantly working on being detached and trusting the process but I know everything always works out for me. I also write in my gratitude book all the small and big things he has done for me even throwing a silly joke, I am thankful for that because that's what I wanted in a rekationship. I only not focus on him, but I write every single thing to be thankful for because everyday something good always happen to us, we just have to feel and look for it.
chelseagurl wrote:
I would like to ask if anyone has the same experience, I have been visualising and doing RS to my POI for nearly 10 months. I know its been a long time, there are times that I feel that it is finally happening but it didn't. I am still optimistic and I continue to trust the process. All of the things I visualise already showed up except for him being in a relationship with me.
- I visualised us having a nice dinner in a Spanish restaurant, in a cafe etc and it happened!
- I visualised us in a car driving at night, because I really find it romantic, and it happened!
- I visualised him inside my flat, and he went over 5x
- I visualised him bringing me presents and it happened multiple times
- I visualised him kneeling to ask for my forgiveness because we had a fight, and it happened
- I visualised him sending me messages first with the heart emojis, and he constantly does it.
- I visualised him saying how important I am to him, and he said it!
- I visualised him waiting for me after my work out, and it happened
- I visualised us going to a park, and he asked me to accompany him at the library located in the middle of a park!
- I visualised us kissing at the airport, it happened when I went to Copenhagen, he dropped me off at the airport and he kissed me on the cheek.
I am just wondering why everything I visualised happened except him saying he loves me and he wants to be with me. I don't understand it. Of course I am thankful that all of this happened that's why I am not giving up.
There are also intentions that I asked for but it happens to people close to me, like having twins, but it was my brother who had twins exactly how I wanted it, a boy and girl, and having a relationship wherein I like my partner to see me every weekend and spend off days with me, that happened to my friend.
I don't know what else to do and I am getting excited of the day that he finally says he loves me....
Your post put the biggest smile on my face! Lol. This is amazing! Congrats girl! I do have a question though. When you would visualize these things, would you follow Lanie's method by calling their name 3 times in a parking lot and then visualize the other scenarios you mentioned? I know there's no right or wrong way to do it but I'm always curious to see how others do theirs.
Oh no don't get me wrong, I am so grateful for all the manifestations that's why I kept my hopes high. I am always in contact with him everyday because we work together. I am learning to detach and focus on the end result and it keeps my mood and confidence up.
chelseagurl wrote:
I would like to ask if anyone has the same experience, I have been visualising and doing RS to my POI for nearly 10 months. I know its been a long time, there are times that I feel that it is finally happening but it didn't. I am still optimistic and I continue to trust the process. All of the things I visualise already showed up except for him being in a relationship with me.
- I visualised us having a nice dinner in a Spanish restaurant, in a cafe etc and it happened!
- I visualised us in a car driving at night, because I really find it romantic, and it happened!
- I visualised him inside my flat, and he went over 5x
- I visualised him bringing me presents and it happened multiple times
- I visualised him kneeling to ask for my forgiveness because we had a fight, and it happened
- I visualised him sending me messages first with the heart emojis, and he constantly does it.
- I visualised him saying how important I am to him, and he said it!
- I visualised him waiting for me after my work out, and it happened
- I visualised us going to a park, and he asked me to accompany him at the library located in the middle of a park!
- I visualised us kissing at the airport, it happened when I went to Copenhagen, he dropped me off at the airport and he kissed me on the cheek.
I am just wondering why everything I visualised happened except him saying he loves me and he wants to be with me. I don't understand it. Of course I am thankful that all of this happened that's why I am not giving up.
There are also intentions that I asked for but it happens to people close to me, like having twins, but it was my brother who had twins exactly how I wanted it, a boy and girl, and having a relationship wherein I like my partner to see me every weekend and spend off days with me, that happened to my friend.
I don't know what else to do and I am getting excited of the day that he finally says he loves me....
Lol. I cant even get a text. If I were you i'd be over the moon that all these happens and I wouldn't question why he hasn't said it yet.
You're focusing on the things you didn't get instead of the things you manifested. Be careful. Or you'd be given just that and everything else gone.
Congrats to you, and thankyou for showing me that 2 months is nothing. My love is in copenhagen ans I'm in south east asia. If there comes a day where we meet again i'd be over the moon.
Have you ever gone no contact with him?
Hell. Just a message from him and i'll already be flying.
marilyng wrote:
I don't know the answer to this but there are many people on here who have got the opposite results, their POI have said most of the things they wanted them to say but then they are cold again and don't back up their words by actions, I think you are in a far stronger position than those people!
Thank you for your reply marilyng, it is quite confusing but it gets me more excited and carry on. I am so eager to wait for that day to come that we will be together because I know it will happen. I don't have a timeline so there is no pressure on me. I simply enjoy and trust the process. Right now, after doing my meditation, I simply forget about it and focus on my weight loss, there are times that I question why it's not happening yet, because I'm not perfect, I simply switch off that thought and remember all the things that already manifested.
I don't know the answer to this but there are many people on here who have got the opposite results, their POI have said most of the things they wanted them to say but then they are cold again and don't back up their words by actions, I think you are in a far stronger position than those people!
I would like to ask if anyone has the same experience, I have been visualising and doing RS to my POI for nearly 10 months. I know its been a long time, there are times that I feel that it is finally happening but it didn't. I am still optimistic and I continue to trust the process. All of the things I visualise already showed up except for him being in a relationship with me.
- I visualised us having a nice dinner in a Spanish restaurant, in a cafe etc and it happened!
- I visualised us in a car driving at night, because I really find it romantic, and it happened!
- I visualised him inside my flat, and he went over 5x
- I visualised him bringing me presents and it happened multiple times
- I visualised him kneeling to ask for my forgiveness because we had a fight, and it happened
- I visualised him sending me messages first with the heart emojis, and he constantly does it.
- I visualised him saying how important I am to him, and he said it!
- I visualised him waiting for me after my work out, and it happened
- I visualised us going to a park, and he asked me to accompany him at the library located in the middle of a park!
- I visualised us kissing at the airport, it happened when I went to Copenhagen, he dropped me off at the airport and he kissed me on the cheek.
I am just wondering why everything I visualised happened except him saying he loves me and he wants to be with me. I don't understand it. Of course I am thankful that all of this happened that's why I am not giving up.
There are also intentions that I asked for but it happens to people close to me, like having twins, but it was my brother who had twins exactly how I wanted it, a boy and girl, and having a relationship wherein I like my partner to see me every weekend and spend off days with me, that happened to my friend.
I don't know what else to do and I am getting excited of the day that he finally says he loves me....