Hi you lovely people...I have recently started studying the loa way and manifesting. And was drawn to Lanie's books which have read and been using daily. So far it has been working wonderfully. Though I do have a question...if say your bf left for another woman and you use the PW and whispering technique on him to come back could you not use it on her to leave him. Or is that giving her to much power. I appreciate the input.