Hi 😄 I've been in nc for over a year , it would've been two years this November. So it's been a while! And it's been really hard at times. I had tried to reach out before and got no response, and that hurt. So yes, please make sure you're in a good place if you decide to message your poi! Thank you for the kind words, I definitely feel like it's helped me fully let go. How long has it been for you? Do you do pw , bwd or both?

Hi ladies (and guys), I've been away for a while, as I felt like I really needed a break to take care of myself ! I also haven't been doing the technique as a nightly thing (just when it feels good) but finally, after a year and some months , we talked ! 😄 I don't want this to get too long, and I'm sure there aren't many people aware of my backstory but basically I've been  through ups and downs...I've quit and restarted a couple times 😬..and it's been a journey! And also.. I may have broken the rules and reached out first..(but in my case I pretty much had to..) since closure was the goal. What happens next is well...up to God (or universe) at this point. Anyway, if there's any questions go for it ! Nothing too deep has happened yet, no grand declarations of love,  but I just wanted to share that finally I've gotten some success 💛! And now that the person is actually in communication, I guess I could use the technique and actually see how they respond instead of wondering.