Glovergirl wrote:

Mirroring is a little different, I see what you are saying. 

The person can become overwhelmed yes. The love spell is powerful.  That's why I mentioned ensuring it comes from a place of love.

Men also sometimes step back to regroup. I would not let the distance get to you. Go be busy and do your thing.

Thanks very much, Glovergirl! ❤️

Glovergirl wrote:

It sounds to me like you are playing games a little with not responding  etc. If you're legit busy being awesome and amazing in your life, that's one thing. But to play him, I don't get why. 

You've already outright stated you're doing this because you want the upper hand in the relationship.  That to me doesn't even sound based in love or caring.   

Maybe he's simply catching onto the nonsense. I do apologize if I sound harsh, but I just don't see the point in playing games.

Why not just be your authentic self and enjoy the connection.

I might have overdone it. But it doesn’t make sense to me why he’s suddenly being a little distant after me doing the love spell on him. I was trying to mirror his behavior by not immediately responding to his messages. Before the love spell, he’s been consistent in messaging me throughout the day. Then after the love spell, he messages me only at night and now absolutely nothing.

Do you think I should initiate the conversation? Thanks for replying, btw.

UPDATE:

I decided to not reply to his late night text messages. He called after 2 hours of not responding and I also did not take his call. The next morning he sent me a barrage of messages asking why I’m not replying. I replied nomchalantly at around noon time. He asked if he could see me and even asked if he was being too clingy.  He never asks these things. He’s too proud to ask these things. I agreed.

When he came to see me I was surprised that he gave me something from his business trip which he never does. He has a no gifts policy. He also asked me several times why I took so long to reply to him. I dodged the questions. When we were making love he begged me to tell me I love him. Again, he never does this.

In the morning, he said categorically that he’s only said “I love you” to 4 girls in his entire life and that includes me. We had a good banter about both our exes. He was teasing me about giving that ex the best version of me and that he thinks I’m holding back. I was also surprised that I didn’t feel any jealousy talking about his ex. I even had to pretend I was being jealous. It was very playful and we had a good laugh. But in the end he was serious and told me to delete my ex’s phone number from my phone. He never does these things. We parted ways and he sent me a message again that afternoon. I replied only a couple of times and I ended the conversation hanging.

The day after, which is today, I didn’t get a message from him. Not a single message and the day is almost ending.

I start my second session of love spell tomorrow. And now I’m confused. Am I missing something here? Am I being too resistant to his advances by not being responsive to him?

Help!