Thanks for your reply. 😀 I find it easier him saying things to me then me telling him first, I find it hard for him to say it back to me. Thanks again I'll keep doing that way.
I'm so glad you love my books! Â You can do it either way or BOTH ways. Â That is usually how I do it. Â I can't just be quiet and hear something when I visualize. Â I find that I can feel more emotion when I am saying things to them, too. Â :-)
Lanie is one way the better then the other? Have the man say the things you want to hear to you (like in PW) or you say the things you want to hear and have him repeat it back to you (like in BWD). I know it's the same thing but is it better we say it first and have him repeat it, or what ever feels the most comfortable doing.
I went back and read both books again and notice the different ways you do it. Didn't know if it was when you wrote your second book you thought this way was better or just showing a different way of doing it. Love your books by the way 😘