Thank you for your input everyone! It is greatly appreciated

I guess I am struggling with this because for me, letting someone else do all of the initiating to me feels like a game and that is not what I want happening here. Our conversations have been flowing from one day to the next, just continuing from where we left off, but on Monday and Tuesday he initiated conversation when we had said goodnight the night before. Yesterday there was no contact because neither of us texted. I just feel a little flustered because I feel like there are rules that need to be followed for this to be successful 

When my guy and me first met each other 6 years ago and were getting to know each other, we both initiated conversation and both made plans. It was all equal. We both put in equal amount of energy and we ended up dating for 5 years. 

pixelpie wrote:

Looks like Linda has it covered☺ You got this just trust the process☺

 
Okay just to be clear: I should let him always initiate conversation??

eleven wrote:

Linda wrote:

eleven wrote:

I understand what you're saying! But, once contact has been made, isn't communication what makes two people move forward?

Yes but when he is contacting you first. If you haven't read Lanie Pussy Power yet I would suggest you do.
Are you making excuses for him?
A man will act like a dog when they want the woman. Give him time and he will chase you like a dog I am sure.

I have not read it yet! I was planning on buying it tonight actually but wasn't sure lol I guess I will

That will keep you busy and will take your mind off things.
I realise that my man hate woman that chases him. In fact he like to chase.
I remember when I met him I used to treat him not so nice and he was just like a dog not joking. He even said you are the fist woman that not chase me. He fell in love. Then I start to feel insecure and chase him.
Not anymore I will have finally found my place and he is going to chase me again.
He likes it to chase and he likes if I don't give him the attention in the world it will definitely get his attention and thinking more of me.  It's pleasure for him, I know him that well.

I am loving this power. Lol

You have the tools use my sister. Xx

eleven wrote:

Linda wrote:

Do not text.... Texts,call, or email do not work.
I did this mistake before and didn't work with my man and will not work with yours either.

Lanie said not to text and move on.
You are not trusting the thecnique. If you get in a good place the visualisation will be satisfactory for you.

Yesterday I was missing my man I did some eft meditation and then I connected with him. It felt good and this evening it felt amazing and real.

Just connect with him this way and he will be back. Like Lanie said, we need to give time for the flame to burn.

I have been using PW in my girlfriend as she is close to me where I can watch her and I realise that this thecnique it's working but in a very subtly way. It's slow
Sorry but I had to do a bit of Burn thecnique too and she flirt with me a bit.
I need to see results. I was in the gym went to have a shower and she said. "Do you want enjoy me." Lol
She keeps share her stuff with me. Lol
I never visualise asking her things, but I guess this is the way she is showing her love and apreciation towards me.
This is the girl that was a night mare before, I was really anoyed and had cause some problem. I was going to stop even my friendship with her. I didn't like to so I start use the PW to keep her as a good friend and see the results close.

Be in a good place. Just focus in love yourself and this feeling will pass.

I understand what you're saying! But, once contact has been made, isn't communication what makes two people move forward?

Yes but when he is contacting you first. If you haven't read Lanie Pussy Power yet I would suggest you do.
Are you making excuses for him?
A man will act like a dog when they want the woman. Give him time and he will chase you like a dog I am sure.

Do not text.... Texts,call, or email do not work.
I did this mistake before and didn't work with my man and will not work with yours either.

Lanie said not to text and move on.
You are not trusting the thecnique. If you get in a good place the visualisation will be satisfactory for you.

Yesterday I was missing my man I did some eft meditation and then I connected with him. It felt good and this evening it felt amazing and real.

Just connect with him this way and he will be back. Like Lanie said, we need to give time for the flame to burn.

I have been using PW in my girlfriend as she is close to me where I can watch her and I realise that this thecnique it's working but in a very subtly way.  It's slow
Sorry but I had to do a bit of Bwd thecnique too and she flirt with me a bit.
I need to see results.  I was in the gym went to have a shower and she said. "Do you want enjoy me." Lol
She keeps sharing her stuff with me. Lol
I never visualise asking her things, but I guess this is the way she is showing her love and apreciation towards me. Which I find sweet.
This is the girl that was a night mare before,  I was really anoyed and she had caused some problem. I was going to stop even my friendship with her. I didn't like to stop my friendship, because I genuine like her. So I start use the PW to keep her as a good friend and see the results close.

Be in a good place. Just focus in love yourself  and this feeling will pass.

So, I have been in contact with my guy for about a week now after not speaking for 6 months. I was reading what Lanie was saying about no contact. I find myself struggling trying to figure out if I should message him at all or let him do all of the initiating . . . we have been talking since he contacted me and so far today no contact. I was thinking about messaging him, but I am not sure!