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10/07/2016 2:06 am
Rubybell68 wrote:
Exactly!! Stop overthinking!! Overthinking is your worst enemy. Why are you confused about the text he sent you? Who cares? He knows if he sends you a text you will instantly respond and wonder what he is doing. He knows you desperatly want him. TRUST ME, HE CAN FEEL IT! Do not let a simple text confuse you. Your to beautiful and strong to be worried about one stupid text! You have the power with this technique now use it!!
Hm nah i didn't instantly respond because of two reasons: the first one: I wanted to let him wait and the second reason: didn't know what to answer lol.
He isn't a total prick lol I know he misses me. I just thought it was a nice text just didn't know what he meant with it. But actually I know why he wrote me .. one day before I sent on pw a message to him 'write me if you miss me, don't has to be much but write me if you miss me' and he did. It's a baby step but it's nice that he thinks about me before he left on vacation.
That is not a baby step sweetheart! That is a HUGE STEP!!! Your on the rite track girl!! Do not doubt that one second!!! It is working like a charm for you and that is pretty dam inspiring if you ask me!! Keep it up!!!
Just wanted to keep you updated and maybe a little opinion on his behavior lol.
Sooo as you know he's on vacation with his two female colleagues right now I visualized/PW, me in him missing me and BWD from time to time. On Wednesday (half time of his vacation) he sent me some pictures of him and a white camel (I was sooo happy he didn't has any picture with one of the girls. Not in his profile picture neither he sent me one. We didn't write much but it was a nice talk and he seemed much kinder since the last time we talked. He even flirted with me a bit but in a shy behavior lol. The camel was really white and he was soooo sunburnt and I i said guess the camel had a better suncreme than you haha. Just wanted to tease him a bit lol. Then he wrote '
' haha and I said 'well I'm as white as the camel so don't be sad' and he answered 'hrrr..(and the monkey who hides his face on whatsapp).' like he really misses my white skin and body maybe? lol I asked him if he's kidding and he said 'no :D'
Then he sent me another picture where he was very sunburned again and silly me I didn't make him a compliment I just answered 'sunburned smiley face ' and he only answered 'pfff' that was it for wednesday lol. Didn't know what to write so I didn't answer anymore.
Yesterday he text me again and wished me a nice evening unfortunately with a picture of him and one of his colleagues on his profile picture -.- but well he looks really handsome on it and not sunburned lol maybe that's why he took it...
We wrote a bit and I told him 'enjoy the sun in egypt I'm already cuddling with my blanket because it's already that cold again and said I'll sleep now' and he answered 'sweet dreams I miss my autumn (fall)' whooooot? isn't that strange? He text me a short time after my PW/ visualization and stuff and he wrotes 'I miss my autumn'? Is it only me or sounds that like he misses me and just is too carefull to admit it? Otherwise he wouldn't write so late in the evening on his vacation would he? Well we talked a bit about the good stuff about fall like going for a walk trough the leaves and so on. And he said 'I look forward to' but we didn't talk about if we would do that together again..
Well would love to hear your opinion on that ... Guess it's working but still in a confusing way haha.
10/03/2016 4:53 am
Exactly!! Stop overthinking!! Overthinking is your worst enemy. Why are you confused about the text he sent you? Who cares? He knows if he sends you a text you will instantly respond and wonder what he is doing. He knows you desperatly want him. TRUST ME, HE CAN FEEL IT! Do not let a simple text confuse you. Your to beautiful and strong to be worried about one stupid text! You have the power with this technique now use it!!
Hm nah i didn't instantly respond because of two reasons: the first one: I wanted to let him wait and the second reason: didn't know what to answer lol.
He isn't a total prick lol I know he misses me. I just thought it was a nice text just didn't know what he meant with it. But actually I know why he wrote me .. one day before I sent on pw a message to him 'write me if you miss me, don't has to be much but write me if you miss me' and he didThat is not a baby step sweetheart! That is a HUGE STEP!!! Your on the rite track girl!! Do not doubt that one second!!! It is working like a charm for you and that is pretty dam inspiring if you ask me!! Keep it up!!!
Thanks rubybell guess you're right.
Hopefully I'll be able to tell my success story soon
Thanks so much for your help!
10/02/2016 7:44 pm
Yeah you're right. Sorry I'm a chronical overthinker lol..
and I guess something did work otherwise he wouldn't have wrote me eventhough I don't really know what I should think about his confusing textExactly!! Stop overthinking!! Overthinking is your worst enemy. Why are you confused about the text he sent you? Who cares? He knows if he sends you a text you will instantly respond and wonder what he is doing. He knows you desperatly want him. TRUST ME, HE CAN FEEL IT! Do not let a simple text confuse you. Your to beautiful and strong to be worried about one stupid text! You have the power with this technique now use it!!
Hm nah i didn't instantly respond because of two reasons: the first one: I wanted to let him wait and the second reason: didn't know what to answer lol.
He isn't a total prick lol I know he misses me. I just thought it was a nice text just didn't know what he meant with it. But actually I know why he wrote me .. one day before I sent on pw a message to him 'write me if you miss me, don't has to be much but write me if you miss me' and he did
That is not a baby step sweetheart! That is a HUGE STEP!!! Your on the rite track girl!! Do not doubt that one second!!! It is working like a charm for you and that is pretty dam inspiring if you ask me!! Keep it up!!!
10/02/2016 3:40 am
The more emotions you feel, he will feel. Do not overthink every single detail. Doing so brings doubt. Just know that it is working and let it go. Do not over analyze every small thing. As long as you put feelings behind the technique it means it is working. Reread both of Lanie's book. Everytime I reread them I pick up something new.
Yeah you're right. Sorry I'm a chronical overthinker lol..
and I guess something did work otherwise he wouldn't have wrote me eventhough I don't really know what I should think about his confusing textExactly!! Stop overthinking!! Overthinking is your worst enemy. Why are you confused about the text he sent you? Who cares? He knows if he sends you a text you will instantly respond and wonder what he is doing. He knows you desperatly want him. TRUST ME, HE CAN FEEL IT! Do not let a simple text confuse you. Your to beautiful and strong to be worried about one stupid text! You have the power with this technique now use it!!
Hm nah i didn't instantly respond because of two reasons: the first one: I wanted to let him wait and the second reason: didn't know what to answer lol.
He isn't a total prick lol I know he misses me. I just thought it was a nice text just didn't know what he meant with it. But actually I know why he wrote me .. one day before I sent on pw a message to him 'write me if you miss me, don't has to be much but write me if you miss me' and he did . It's a baby step but it's nice that he thinks about me before he left on vacation.
10/01/2016 9:00 pm
So Rubybell68 are you saying when you visualise but your not part of the scenario, you're just watching him say things or think things about you, you still call him to you, all do you just call out his name to wake him up so to speak?
I visualize him, call out to him then imagine I am looking though his eyes and his thoughts. I do not overthink my visualizations and I do it differently each time. I will do this maybe for 5 minutes and then let it go. I just have fun with and I do not over analyze if I am doing it correctly because you can not do it wrong. I just visualize what feels good at that time. I do not have a specific ritual I do. I do know in my heart that every single time my love gets my messages.
Keep in mind I am in NO CONTACT with my love and have not been in 6 months. I no longer do the technique everday nor do I do it twice a day when I do. I do the technique when it feel like it. I do fall sleep to a meditation playlist every night and I script every night. Do what feels good.
10/01/2016 8:51 pm
Sooo I tried this yesterday before I went to sleep. So I have a question now lol... I imagined me (in him) sitting with his colleagues and they talked with him but he didn't really pay attention and all he could think about how much better it would be if I would be with him and how he misses me. I even let him go to his hotel room because of that lol. But I felt quite sad while doing this. Is that normal? Is that because I feel his feelings at this moment? Or isn't that a good sign.The more emotions you feel, he will feel. Do not overthink every single detail. Doing so brings doubt. Just know that it is working and let it go. Do not over analyze every small thing. As long as you put feelings behind the technique it means it is working. Reread both of Lanie's book. Everytime I reread them I pick up something new.
Yeah you're right. Sorry I'm a chronical overthinker lol..
and I guess something did work otherwise he wouldn't have wrote me eventhough I don't really know what I should think about his confusing text
Exactly!! Stop overthinking!! Overthinking is your worst enemy. Why are you confused about the text he sent you? Who cares? He knows if he sends you a text you will instantly respond and wonder what he is doing. He knows you desperatly want him. TRUST ME, HE CAN FEEL IT! Do not let a simple text confuse you. Your to beautiful and strong to be worried about one stupid text! You have the power with this technique now use it!!
10/01/2016 5:23 pm
So Rubybell68 are you saying when you visualise but your not part of the scenario, you're just watching him say things or think things about you, you still call him to you, all do you just call out his name to wake him up so to speak?
10/01/2016 2:52 pm
So when I do this during the day I spend no more than 10 minutes and I am always sitting in a chair. I relax my mind and I will visualize him and when I say visualize him the way I do it it is as if I am him. Like I am sitting there at the bar talking to the girl and thinking, your not MadMoiselle87, imagine through his eyes. The girl is talking but all he hears is WAH, WAH, WAH (like the Charlie Brown teacher) because all he can do is think your not MadMoiselle87 and she is all that I desire. FUCK! I AM IN LOVE WITH MadMoiselle87!!
Make sure you call out to him before you visualize. I call out to my love about 3 to 5 times then switch to a sceniro I think he mite be in. Be confident in it. If you know he will be going out to different clubs on his vacation pick a poplular song out rite now and visualize him out hearing the song and being like. DAM, FOR SOME REASON THIS SONG MAKES ME MISS MadMoiselle87. GOD I WISH SHE WAS HERE!! You know how clubs can play out a popular song.
Sooo I tried this yesterday before I went to sleep. So I have a question now lol... I imagined me (in him) sitting with his colleagues and they talked with him but he didn't really pay attention and all he could think about how much better it would be if I would be with him and how he misses me. I even let him go to his hotel room because of that lol. But I felt quite sad while doing this. Is that normal? Is that because I feel his feelings at this moment? Or isn't that a good sign.
The more emotions you feel, he will feel. Do not overthink every single detail. Doing so brings doubt. Just know that it is working and let it go. Do not over analyze every small thing. As long as you put feelings behind the technique it means it is working. Reread both of Lanie's book. Everytime I reread them I pick up something new.
Yeah you're right. Sorry I'm a chronical overthinker lol..
and I guess something did work otherwise he wouldn't have wrote me eventhough I don't really know what I should think about his confusing text
10/01/2016 1:57 pm
MadMoiselle87, that's actually good.
No looking at his posts.
I had huge urge to look at my ex's whatsapp dp and status recently (I have his number in my memory) and only I know how I controlled myself.
So stay strong girl.
I have a question, what if she imagines him sitting with someone and hears him saying things she wants him to think but she is able to see him in her imagination?
What if instead of visualizing as if she is him, she visualizes him separately? As if she is standing there and watching him while he is talking to someone but thinking about her?
Can that work?
It all works. It is whatever you feel connected more to..
10/01/2016 1:55 pm
I love that rubybell
So you really imagine this as a scenario not only as in PW?
And I would imagine him like I could read his mind right?So when I do this during the day I spend no more than 10 minutes and I am always sitting in a chair. I relax my mind and I will visualize him and when I say visualize him the way I do it it is as if I am him. Like I am sitting there at the bar talking to the girl and thinking, your not MadMoiselle87, imagine through his eyes. The girl is talking but all he hears is WAH, WAH, WAH (like the Charlie Brown teacher) because all he can do is think your not MadMoiselle87 and she is all that I desire. FUCK! I AM IN LOVE WITH MadMoiselle87!!
Make sure you call out to him before you visualize. I call out to my love about 3 to 5 times then switch to a sceniro I think he mite be in. Be confident in it. If you know he will be going out to different clubs on his vacation pick a poplular song out rite now and visualize him out hearing the song and being like. DAM, FOR SOME REASON THIS SONG MAKES ME MISS MadMoiselle87. GOD I WISH SHE WAS HERE!! You know how clubs can play out a popular song.
Sooo I tried this yesterday before I went to sleep. So I have a question now lol... I imagined me (in him) sitting with his colleagues and they talked with him but he didn't really pay attention and all he could think about how much better it would be if I would be with him and how he misses me. I even let him go to his hotel room because of that lol. But I felt quite sad while doing this. Is that normal? Is that because I feel his feelings at this moment? Or isn't that a good sign.
The more emotions you feel, he will feel. Do not overthink every single detail. Doing so brings doubt. Just know that it is working and let it go. Do not over analyze every small thing. As long as you put feelings behind the technique it means it is working. Reread both of Lanie's book. Everytime I reread them I pick up something new.
10/01/2016 11:49 am
He messaged me today ... he wasn't away yet. He wrote 'my flight goes tonight and i just wanted to send you lovely thoughts before'?! Weird ... don't know what to think about that we didn't write I just wished him a nice flight and that he'll come home safe...
What do you girls think?
10/01/2016 5:16 am
I would visualize him thinking in his head. For instance, He is sitting at the bar having a drink with his friend pretending to have a good time but inside he is miserable and can not stop thinking about you. Men do not express their feelings to their bros. When I visualize my love missing me I visualize him missing me like he usually would.
Another example can be visualize him talking to another girl and him saying over and over in his head that the girl is not you and he has no interest in anyone but you.
Visualize him walking around where he is on vacation and EVERYTHING reminds him of you and visualize him saying in his mind, GOD DAM IT MADMOISELLE87!! YOUR EVERYWHERE BABE!! I'M GOING NUTS WITHOUT YOU LOVE!!! WTF AM I DOING HERE WITHOUT YOU!!
I do visualizations like this for a few minutes throughout the day to make me feel better. Hope this helps sweetheart.I love that rubybell
So you really imagine this as a scenario not only as in PW?
And I would imagine him like I could read his mind right?So when I do this during the day I spend no more than 10 minutes and I am always sitting in a chair. I relax my mind and I will visualize him and when I say visualize him the way I do it it is as if I am him. Like I am sitting there at the bar talking to the girl and thinking, your not MadMoiselle87, imagine through his eyes. The girl is talking but all he hears is WAH, WAH, WAH (like the Charlie Brown teacher) because all he can do is think your not MadMoiselle87 and she is all that I desire. FUCK! I AM IN LOVE WITH MadMoiselle87!!
Make sure you call out to him before you visualize. I call out to my love about 3 to 5 times then switch to a sceniro I think he mite be in. Be confident in it. If you know he will be going out to different clubs on his vacation pick a poplular song out rite now and visualize him out hearing the song and being like. DAM, FOR SOME REASON THIS SONG MAKES ME MISS MadMoiselle87. GOD I WISH SHE WAS HERE!! You know how clubs can play out a popular song.
Sooo I tried this yesterday before I went to sleep. So I have a question now lol... I imagined me (in him) sitting with his colleagues and they talked with him but he didn't really pay attention and all he could think about how much better it would be if I would be with him and how he misses me. I even let him go to his hotel room because of that lol. But I felt quite sad while doing this. Is that normal? Is that because I feel his feelings at this moment? Or isn't that a good sign.
10/01/2016 4:00 am
MadMoiselle87, that's actually good.
No looking at his posts.
I had huge urge to look at my ex's whatsapp dp and status recently (I have his number in my memory) and only I know how I controlled myself.
So stay strong girl.
I have a question, what if she imagines him sitting with someone and hears him saying things she wants him to think but she is able to see him in her imagination?
What if instead of visualizing as if she is him, she visualizes him separately? As if she is standing there and watching him while he is talking to someone but thinking about her?
Can that work?
9/30/2016 7:07 pm
I must stress though do not get your hopes up that when he comes home that he is all of a sudden going to call you and say that he misses you. Men react to their emtions differently than women do. They tend to pull away more when filled with emotions. Just know that he is getting your messages and it will take time so do not give up. I learned this the hard way as I am so impatient. Stay strong girl and know that I GOT YOUR BACK!!! You can do this!!!
Thanks so much rubybell. This helps alot!
Yeah I guess he's one of this men... we were in daily contact already and I did pw and rs on him and suddenly he became distant again... but he said some parts of my visualizations so I have no doubt that it did work but he's just so confused about it.
But I'm sure he'll come back at the right time
Good to know I have your back girls! You're amazing xxx
Be thankful that you have had conformation that it works. You have seen it for yourself. I have had no contact whats so ever with my love in 6 months but I know they receive my messages. Sometimes men pull away to regroup and get control of themselves. You never know what is going on in the background. Just be the confident women you are. He can feel your vibe.
9/30/2016 4:45 pm
I must stress though do not get your hopes up that when he comes home that he is all of a sudden going to call you and say that he misses you. Men react to their emtions differently than women do. They tend to pull away more when filled with emotions. Just know that he is getting your messages and it will take time so do not give up. I learned this the hard way as I am so impatient. Stay strong girl and know that I GOT YOUR BACK!!! You can do this!!!
Thanks so much rubybell. This helps alot!
Yeah I guess he's one of this men... we were in daily contact already and I did pw and rs on him and suddenly he became distant again... but he said some parts of my visualizations so I have no doubt that it did work but he's just so confused about it.
But I'm sure he'll come back at the right time . Sometimes it's hard I'm very impatient as well but I have to stay focused and calm.
Good to know I have your back girls! You're amazing xxx
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