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12/22/2016 6:41 am
Thanks everyone for the encouragement. And yes my bucket is filling, it's just about full I would say lol.
12/22/2016 12:28 am
HH wrote:
I'm pretty sure this was posted a few times but I'll repeat it as I love the analogy. When you are doing RS/RI, it's like filling up a bucket with drops of water. Sooner or later the bucket has to fill and overflow. There's no other way. For some, this may mean weeks, for others, it might be months but sooner or later he'll give in. Persistence is key. You can already see it working. Know that it is. Don't worry about the actual situation and give your attention to what you want. You've done so well. Keep going! Your bucket is filling 😀
I love your advice DC. Â It's so hard for me...Â
I'm working with a really large bucket then...
12/21/2016 10:02 pm
I'm pretty sure this was posted a few times but I'll repeat it as I love the analogy. When you are doing RS/RI, it's like filling up a bucket with drops of water. Sooner or later the bucket has to fill and overflow. There's no other way. For some, this may mean weeks, for others, it might be months but sooner or later he'll give in. Persistence is key. You can already see it working. Know that it is. Don't worry about the actual situation and give your attention to what you want. You've done so well. Keep going! Your bucket is filling 😀
I love your advice DC. Â It's so hard for me...Â
12/21/2016 2:38 pm
If you read bambi success, you will see that her man also try to resist the feelings for her. But in the end he gave in.
12/21/2016 2:34 pm
That analogy really helps clarify it for me. Thanks for explaining it that way!
If its working this is the sign that his behaving it's start to changing. He is resisting which this come as resistence.
You most care on eagerly with the thecnique.
Ha soon or later, which may take time, may not. He will give in.
12/21/2016 1:29 pm
That analogy really helps clarify it for me. Thanks for explaining it that way!
12/20/2016 11:26 pm
I'm pretty sure this was posted a few times but I'll repeat it as I love the analogy. When you are doing RS/RI, it's like filling up a bucket with drops of water. Sooner or later the bucket has to fill and overflow. There's no other way. For some, this may mean weeks, for others, it might be months but sooner or later he'll give in. Persistence is key. You can already see it working. Know that it is. Don't worry about the actual situation and give your attention to what you want. You've done so well. Keep going! Your bucket is filling 😀
12/20/2016 3:24 am
Avoid getting news about him. And no matter what anybody tells you about him, ignore it as if you never heard it and keep going.
12/19/2016 4:18 pm
Just need some encouragement to keep going. I know it's working, I've just been told by a friend that he is working on saving the relationship he is in now so I know It works and got into his head. I don't like posting about this worry because it brings it into reality the worry. I guess I'm just asking you wonderful people on this forum for some advice on how to best keep going with this and how to stop the doubt that he won't leave her. Feeling happy that it's working in some way but sad that he has decided to suppress his feelings for me. Thanks for the support 😘
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