Claire_Bear wrote:

Mcleanie77 wrote:

 How do you normally try and flirt with a guy?

I don't!  I never really know how to be honest !!!

 
Well we need to help you start! What are things you like to say to them or like you like them to say to you? Or are you kinda stumped on that?

When you're doing the technique what are the things you're having him say because when he says those words when he's with you it'll kinda come to you! You can always flash him your boob's😂😂😂😂😂 I'm seriously soooooooo kidding!!!

Claire_Bear wrote:

Thanks for these.

Do you know, since I started this last week with the romantic person (L) in mind, I have had real in depth contact from another male friend (N) who had been sporadic (not the two I mentioned here, another N and R).  We haven't chatted for a while and in response to my Happy Belated New Year one-liner, sent me a long email with lots of chat and news and his new phone number, which I have never had.  So it seems to work elsewhere too!

Great news!

I grew up with three brothers and have always been comfortable around guys in general and particularly as friends. I was brought up with boys, their friends and there was lots of football and other related chat so I'm OK with that. It's the flirting I'm not so good at as I see them as people first and foremost and friends. 

 
wow that's awesome sweetie about being comfortable around guys most find it hard to have guy homies! Hahaha!😂 How do you normally try and flirt with a guy?

Claire_Bear wrote:

Just a question really.

I've a couple of friends I would like to get back in contact with - from the past again but not romantic. They are both exes of sorts but that is not the relationship I want with them now. One of them is a very very good mate from so long ago - he's in a relationship happily now. I finished with him when we were really young because he wanted to get engaged and I wasn't in love with him. We've stayed friends, but now I want to make sure we get back in touch. The other is an almost-ex.  I think we both wanted something to happen - I definitely did, and I am sure he did but he was hesitant and blocked contact with me for years.  But life is too short and I would like these people in my life as good friends. 

So has anyone tried this in these kind of circumstances and how would you vary the visualisations?  It's not "too much" is it, if you are also doing this romantically for a different person?

It's perfectly clear when visualising who is who as they are so different, I wouldn't mix the guys up! 

 
I did it for a few friends I wanted back in my life what I did is basically the PW technique but instead of the boyfriend or husband visual's just think of them and I had them tell me I missed you I'm so glad I called you or texted whatever you decide on how you would love for them to contact you! I've been thinking about you soooo much or I'm so glad we are talking again our relationship is really important to me and I also had them saying these things to me not the other way around😀

Just a question really.

I've a couple of friends I would like to get back in contact with - from the past again but not romantic. They are both exes of sorts but that is not the relationship I want with them now. One of them is a very very good mate from so long ago - he's in a relationship happily now. I finished with him when we were really young because he wanted to get engaged and I wasn't in love with him. We've stayed friends, but now I want to make sure we get back in touch. The other is an almost-ex.  I think we both wanted something to happen - I definitely did, and I am sure he did but he was hesitant and blocked contact with me for years.  But life is too short and I would like these people in my life as good friends. 

So has anyone tried this in these kind of circumstances and how would you vary the visualisations?  It's not "too much" is it, if you are also doing this romantically for a different person?

It's perfectly clear when visualising who is who as they are so different, I wouldn't mix the guys up!