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marilyng wrote:

There are really 4 main options when it comes to social media and being blocked or not.
1. You get blocked because they have no feelings and they don't want you to be connected in that way anymore or you're bothering them.
2. You get blocked because they don't want to be reminded of you and they don't want to contact you because they're struggling with their feelings for X reason.
(that shouldn't be that impossible to consider as an option as people do block people quite regularly that they want to forget about if they have feelings for them, it's recommended by lots of people).
3. You don't get blocked because they still have feelings for you and want to be able to keep an eye on you.
4. You don't get blocked because they don't want to cause drama or they like the attention or they are one of those types who never delete everyone and have a gazillion facebook friends.
 

Yeah, this is what I've been mulling over. We can speculate all we want but it's difficult to know which of these 4 scenarios is the correct one. All we can do is trust that the process works and detach as much as possible, without speculating on what that person is doing or not doing at the moment. Easier said than done!

There are really 4 main options when it comes to social media and being blocked or not.
1. You get blocked because they have no feelings and they don't want you to be connected in that way anymore or you're bothering them.
2. You get blocked because they don't want to be reminded of you and they don't want to contact you because they're struggling with their feelings for X reason.
(that shouldn't be that impossible to consider as an option as people do block people quite regularly that they want to forget about if they have feelings for them, it's recommended by lots of people).
3. You don't get blocked because they still have feelings for you and want to be able to keep an eye on you.
4. You don't get blocked because they don't want to cause drama or they like the attention or they are one of those types who never delete everyone and have a gazillion facebook friends.
 

Missy wrote:

I copy pasted this story  from powerolawofattraction as I couldn't post link directly! 


So, I liked this girl that I met at a party a lot. She did strike me with her smile and blue eyes, but she is engaged. SHe never told me, we don't talk a lot but I got this tinny information from a friend of mine. So, anyways I decided to do rs on her because her being engaged really umph up the challenge just to see what happens. Every night I'd RS her for about 2 months. 1st signal was she unfriended me from fb. 2nd she blocked me out wihout NO reason! 3rd when she used to see me she would turn away or pretend talkin on the phone...Now you all thin I'm crazy and that those are really bas signs..or that my RS doesn not have any effect on her..but just wait before you give up on reading this.

So one day out of nowhere, we happened to meet again wit friend for a coffee. She was distant and cold...I was really bothered because I'm a talker and I easily make ppl like me and talk with everyone. So when she went for the bathroom alone.. she sudeenly gave me a glance, her eyes were sparkling..I decided to go see or figure out what was happening and why she blocked me on fb?? ( I alredy knew)  Anyways, when I approached her and said Hi, she was about to have a serious melt-down. I asked her why are you so cold why did you block me on fb?? And here's what she told me...I just can't handle it! Everyday after I met you, I think about you all the time! It's like I can't get you out of my head and I don't know why! Also I'm in love and engaged with a guy I truly love and those thoughts really make me feel insane. It's like I don't know who and what I want anymore!


She told me that and run away. SInce that day I stopped RSing her because I felt sorry for her as she was clearly confused and today I heard from my friend she is getting married. Who knows what would happen if I continued RS? But this is another huge proof it works! Her onfesing all that to me really did change my life! ALso now I'm really careful who I'm RSing because I don't want to mess up anyones head when they're in love with someone else. Have fun and be carefull who you RS next time. Let this be a lesson for you too! Kisses

Wow that is amazing!!! Thank you so much for that!!

It depends. If they are in a relationship, they will resist and block you  because they think they will stop thinking about you, it is logical to stay with who they are..if you take a look at "normal" situations where one of partners starts falling in love with someone else( coworker, friend,anybody), they deny it at first because they know they should be in love with their current mate...

I did BWD for 2 months and he did block me out of a blue. But next day his girlfriend started harrasing me on social media. She never before that knew who I was untl I started creating our relationship in my mind...It scared shit out of me because  I realised what our minds can do! 

Hi eleven. I wasn't meaning that the topic was stupid at all. I was meaning that it was curious to me that the POI would have nightmares. And I've seen that stated more than once and once someone stated something about psychic attacks.I mean what if your FACE is what he sees in the nightmare? That would repel him not draw him. Make him think he's being warned. At least thats how i would take it.Thats how my brother took a nightmare he had about his ex wife. This is why I came to the conclusion I believe the "why" a break up occurred has a lot to do with the results. But we can't talk about that part.

eleven wrote:

Hi mrstkg, I just had to reply to you because I couldn't help but notice your comment about how seeing people asking why their POI are having nightmares etc. made you say "uh okkk". I am assuming you are talking about the thread I started where I mentioned I started PW again on my guy and that night he slept terribly and had nightmares when he usually does not. Now, please don't take this as an attack, but all I would like to say is that any question someone has on this forum is valid and is not stupid, silly or irrelevant. Everyone is going through their own journey and some people have burning questions they'd like to ask. I don't take this personally, as I believe my post was valid, but I am speaking for others who might be in the same situation and end up feeling bad thinking they had a stupid question. Anyway, I hope you can understand where I am coming from!

mrstkg wrote:

I read this and just started laughing. Not because it's funny, I know where your heart is but because I FEEL you. What really made me say...uh. okkk-is when people started asking why their POI is having nightmares now? Or sleeping terribly? It seems like some people have great results and others don't. Tbh. I think it has to do with WHY the break up occured. No one wants to say that though.I just like checking in for the stories now

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

I understand "oh they're trying to resist. But can't they just resist without doing that? And if they felt they wanted you, why would they resist? Why wouldn't they be like "I like this person now", then boom. Why resist?

Also I've been doing pw (not a lot of bwd) on my girl for a year now and she's still on my Facebook friends list but obviously resisting... so what's the big deal?

It just doesn't seem logical to me. And why is my case so weird? Her staying on my friends list but still resisting even after a year?

It's beginning to sound a lot to me like they're just blocking. Nothing more, nothing less. Can someone shed some light on this for me please? Why is my case so off then? Thank you

I'm kinda neutral on this...because my main person has never blocked me, but before Lanie's technique I had someone do this to get my attention, so I figured maybe the whole 'blocking because you're in denial' thing made sense.

All these people using the technique then getting blocked, is just coincidence? This type of thread seems to be common lately, it's interesting.