Lanie Stevens wrote:

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Lanie Stevens wrote:

That is truly great news. Congratulations! However, I hope you don't change everything about your life to accommodate him. It sounds like you have moved on and have someone else in your life now. Don't throw it all away unless he proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he can be the man you need him to be.

Thanks Lanie!! You don't know how grateful I am of your advices through your wonderful books and meditations mp3s!! He is in a week probation now, i give him a week to reasure his sincerity. And you're right, i won't keep the guy i'm dating with now at a bay. It's not like I'm a cheater, but I deserve to have the best man.
Thank you for another precious advice!!😘😘😘

You're welcome! Personally I would make him walk through burning coals for a month! LOL   I just say that because anyone can be on good behavior for a week! Whatever happens I am behind you!  xoxoxoxoxo
 

Or longer hehe

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

That is truly great news. Congratulations! However, I hope you don't change everything about your life to accommodate him. It sounds like you have moved on and have someone else in your life now. Don't throw it all away unless he proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he can be the man you need him to be.

Thanks Lanie!! You don't know how grateful I am of your advices through your wonderful books and meditations mp3s!! He is in a week probation now, i give him a week to reasure his sincerity. And you're right, i won't keep the guy i'm dating with now at a bay. It's not like I'm a cheater, but I deserve to have the best man.
Thank you for another precious advice!!😘😘😘

marilyng wrote:

I wonder would Lanie consider writing a book or making meditations mainly focused on self love but maybe incorporating a little bit of PW at the end.
The reason I suggest that is because people often don't want to give up doing PW totally but continuing obsessively with the techniques isn't doing them any good and they find they can't focus on themselves.
I'm thinking something like imagining yourself happy in certain situations and all sorts of affirmations...and then perhaps link up with the POI at the end when he/she comes into the visualisation and tells you how much they missed you and how great it is to see them so happy and vivacious and it makes them love them more.
Maybe it could help some people out of a negative slump and switch their focus more to themselves which will get their vibe up!
Just an idea!

Many of my meditations include affirmations. I totally suggest that everyone meditate for themselves, as well as for the relationship. You cannot have low self-esteem or negativity and manifest what you desire. In fact, before  using PW it is advisable to work on  Issues within the individual.

Lj wrote:

Think something happened today. I can feel it inside. Dunno what. But...
I will... get myself back.
I will be my number one priority.
Everything else but me will be secondary.
Faith will bring me my desires.
Happy Wednesday everyone.

Wasi wrote:

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

were you doing PW/BWD  during that NC period of 6 months?
 

oh i even did it after a date lol. try dating again, seriously. it helps you enjoying life more. when you surround yourself with people with positive energy, you def will caught their positivity.

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

were you doing PW/BWD  during that NC period of 6 months?
 

Claire_Bear wrote:

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

When I saw the subject of this thread, I knew that the starter of it was you. :-( Most of the posts I’ve seen from you have consisted of you speaking on how the techniques aren’t working for you, how they work for everyone else and how it is taking too long to see results. You don’t seem to realize it but LOA is giving you exactly what you’ve been focusing on.
 

Thank you for your "spot on" post! I'm not trying to kick anyone when they're down but you can tell who will manifest what they desire and who won't buy their posts.   My sisters who are always saying things like  "it isn't working, I can never do anything right, I'm feeling so depressed I can't get out of bed, no one loves me, I will never find happiness…" Wonder why they aren't manifesting positive things.   it's easy for everyone else to see why!

I challenge the people on the forum to go back and read what they have written to see if they have been in a positive frame of mind. Remember, love is the highest vibration of all! If you are not resonating with that vibration then you will not manifest it. The best way to manifest anything is to feel love, gratitude and appreciation for your life and everything in it. If everything is wonderful and all you are missing is your man, then life is pretty good.  

 Start loving your life and love will be attracted to you!

There is another poster on here who is just the same, a guy though, all negative panicky posts. 

What a lovely thing to add. 

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

It's been over 6 months since I've heard from him. This helps a lot.