forgetmenot111 wrote:

Chalice- I posted something similar elsewhere on this forum, but essentially, "less is more" is the kind of mindset to have here??

I just worry that if I focus on me and I'm not necessarily thinking about my ex then the Universe will think I'm okay without it and it will not manifest. What're your thoughts?

Also, I'm curious.. have you used Lanie's techniques at all to manifest? I did one session of Love Spell and I'm doing the second one tonight. What do you think about them??

I don't have the book with the love spell so I can't speak on that one. I have done a bit of Pussy Whip and How To Make Burn With Desire ... Only For You whenever I am in the mood to do them with no specific target in mind. They must have worked as I have a guy nuts about me, but I have zero interest in him. He however is convinced that somehow we will be together. He has a long way to go if he wants to be my man. My standards are far above him. And Shana  is not into settling anymore.

But I have placed them on the back burner since this month begun. I don't want to be in a relationship right now anyways. It's all about me. But if you read my post in Lanie's Brad Pitt about how I manifested my first kiss, I ran into that guy today. He got married not long after I let him go. But he still had the nerve to call me his love. Then he covered it saying he calls everyone that. I bet his wife is not happy about that and I don't believe him anyways. He ain't fooling me.

Let me see if I can find the direct link if you are interested in reading that post. http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?pid=5509#p5509. If the link is not correct, go to page 7, post 68.

To address your first question, the Universe won't forget your order. So many people falsely assume that if they stop thinking about their desires that the desire is going to think they no longer want it. You only have to place your order once. Trust that it will come to you when the time is right. And that time will be when you have the least amount of resistance between you and what you want.
 

littlemermaid wrote:

Hi ChaliceSnowFlower,

I agree with you that  you need to give yourself the love you so desire.

You said getting back into the same old relationship would lead to the same ending. Do you think that there is no way to change the dynamic of a relationship (even if you work on self love and happiness)? 

Of course the dynamics of the relationship can change. Change is not something that happens overnight. This is why working on yourself give you the greatest benefit. But some women are just to anxious to get their man back right now for fear other women will get his attention. That kind of energy does not make you lovely in anyone's eyes. Loving and taking care of self is first. Manifesting your ex is second. But others are doing it the other way around.

This is why I love Lanie's story of how she manifested her ex back. Anyone who has not read it should go and read it right now. Re-read it even if you have done so already. Check out how Lanie spent more time growing and evolving instead of just practicing her own technique. She even mentions somewhere that she was not even doing the technique everyday.

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

littlemermaid wrote:

So I started the game today :D

I was hesitant at first because I thought I really wanted my ex back badly. I tried the PW and BWD and got some immediate results but then I started to think about him like crazy and wait for him to contact me. 

But after  listening to Abraham Hicks on YT I realized that what I really need is to love myself first and life will be what I want. I know that I wouldn't want to get back with my ex and then feel all insecure and anxious to keep him. Happy people want to be around other happy people.

I've only been playing the game for a day but I already feel really positive and HAPPY. Thank you infinitely. I wish this helps other sisters who feel frustrated.

Falling back into the same old relationship will only lead to the same ending again. I find it weird how women want to give men so much love yet at the same time they don't want to give themselves the same amount of love and attention. What they don't realize if they are defecting themselves. Stop waiting o someone else to love you. We are all capable of giving love to yourselves too. That kind of energy will draw people from everywhere because it is so attractive.

Hi ChaliceSnowFlower,

I agree with you that  you need to give yourself the love you so desire.

You said getting back into the same old relationship would lead to the same ending. Do you think that there is no way to change the dynamic of a relationship (even if you work on self love and happiness)? 

littlemermaid wrote:

So I started the game today :D

I was hesitant at first because I thought I really wanted my ex back badly. I tried the PW and BWD and got some immediate results but then I started to think about him like crazy and wait for him to contact me. 

But after  listening to Abraham Hicks on YT I realized that what I really need is to love myself first and life will be what I want. I know that I wouldn't want to get back with my ex and then feel all insecure and anxious to keep him. Happy people want to be around other happy people.

I've only been playing the game for a day but I already feel really positive and HAPPY. Thank you infinitely. I wish this helps other sisters who feel frustrated.

This is why no one should NEVER be in a hurry to manifest an ex back fast. It is better to take a breather and figure out what you truly want in your life. You might just discover that the relationship ending was the best thing in the world to happen to you.

Falling back into the same old relationship will only lead to the same ending again. I find it weird how women want to give men so much love yet at the same time they don't want to give themselves the same amount of love and attention. What they don't realize if they are defecting themselves. Stop waiting o someone else to love you. We are all capable of giving love to yourselves too. That kind of energy will draw people from everywhere because it is so attractive.

So I started the game today :D

I was hesitant at first because I thought I really wanted my ex back badly. I tried the PW and BWD and got some immediate results but then I started to think about him like crazy and wait for him to contact me. 

But after  listening to Abraham Hicks on YT I realized that what I really need is to love myself first and life will be what I want. I know that I wouldn't want to get back with my ex and then feel all insecure and anxious to keep him. Happy people want to be around other happy people.

I've only been playing the game for a day but I already feel really positive and HAPPY. Thank you infinitely. I wish this helps other sisters who feel frustrated. 
 

forgetmenot111 wrote:

Hi there!

I tried going to that site, but I cannot see the "instructions" for the game. Care to share a little more!?

xx

Scroll to the top of the page first. Then you will see the numbers 1, 2, 3 etc. Click on the the number 1. This the first page of the thread. This is here you will find all the instructions. Please don't play it if all you are interested in is manifesting an ex. That is only one small aspect of all the things that manifested.

Hi there!

I tried going to that site, but I cannot see the "instructions" for the game. Care to share a little more!?

xx