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9/14/2017 12:23 pm
Piper wrote:
You're welcome. Just have him say something that would make it seem as though you already have plans or are together.Like "I can't wait to see you this weekend?" Something like that? I apologize for all the questions. I'm trying to say things that really elicit emotions. It's hard when he's never been my boyfriend.
I would definitely work on things that are in present tense - you could go for "I cannot wait for our date tonight," if you would like to do that. Or, "I had such an awesome time on our date." To illicit feelings, it's better to do it like it's already happened. I didn't use an event, so I'm probably not so good at figuring out the proper wording, but always went straight for the emotional aspect. If you have feelings for this person, then use that to your advantage and have him tell you he feels the same. If you are wanting a text or call, I find that Agnes' meditation for getting a text ALWAYS works for me. I actually don't even use that particular one anymore, I just focus on him and he will call/text. It's all a process and finding what works best for each individual person.
Makes a lot of sense. I can't say I have feelings for him yet but I am crushing on him HARD. Lol. We're both attracted to each other. I have used Agnes' mediation for a text on him and it's worked once the day after. I was impressed! I may have to continue to use that method on him more and only do PW/RS/BWD every other night. I'll figure it out. Thanks Piper.
9/14/2017 10:47 am
Thanks so much Piper! That does help and I'll try that tonight. I'm just trying to get us to date more and more.You're welcome. Just have him say something that would make it seem as though you already have plans or are together.
Like "I can't wait to see you this weekend?" Something like that? I apologize for all the questions. I'm trying to say things that really elicit emotions. It's hard when he's never been my boyfriend.
I would definitely work on things that are in present tense - you could go for "I cannot wait for our date tonight," if you would like to do that. Or, "I had such an awesome time on our date." To illicit feelings, it's better to do it like it's already happened. I didn't use an event, so I'm probably not so good at figuring out the proper wording, but always went straight for the emotional aspect. If you have feelings for this person, then use that to your advantage and have him tell you he feels the same. If you are wanting a text or call, I find that Agnes' meditation for getting a text ALWAYS works for me. I actually don't even use that particular one anymore, I just focus on him and he will call/text. It's all a process and finding what works best for each individual person.
9/13/2017 6:19 pm
You can hear him say whatever you want. When I did it, I would hear him say things like "<my name> you are the only woman for me," "<my name> I think about you all the time," stuff like that. I always try to live as-if, and that was incorporated into these techniques. So, instead of "I want to be with you" perhaps change it up to "I love being with you." Hope that makes sense.
Thanks so much Piper! That does help and I'll try that tonight. I'm just trying to get us to date more and more.
You're welcome. Just have him say something that would make it seem as though you already have plans or are together.
Like "I can't wait to see you this weekend?" Something like that? I apologize for all the questions. I'm trying to say things that really elicit emotions. It's hard when he's never been my boyfriend.
9/12/2017 10:15 pm
You can hear him say whatever you want. When I did it, I would hear him say things like "<my name> you are the only woman for me," "<my name> I think about you all the time," stuff like that. I always try to live as-if, and that was incorporated into these techniques. So, instead of "I want to be with you" perhaps change it up to "I love being with you." Hope that makes sense.
Thanks so much Piper! That does help and I'll try that tonight. I'm just trying to get us to date more and more.
You're welcome. Just have him say something that would make it seem as though you already have plans or are together.
9/12/2017 10:09 am
You can hear him say whatever you want. When I did it, I would hear him say things like "<my name> you are the only woman for me," "<my name> I think about you all the time," stuff like that. I always try to live as-if, and that was incorporated into these techniques. So, instead of "I want to be with you" perhaps change it up to "I love being with you." Hope that makes sense.
Thanks so much Piper! That does help and I'll try that tonight. I'm just trying to get us to date more and more.
9/12/2017 9:31 am
You can hear him say whatever you want. When I did it, I would hear him say things like "<my name> you are the only woman for me," "<my name> I think about you all the time," stuff like that. I always try to live as-if, and that was incorporated into these techniques. So, instead of "I want to be with you" perhaps change it up to "I love being with you." Hope that makes sense.
9/12/2017 8:43 am
Can someone answer my question please?
9/10/2017 8:44 pm
Hey everyone,
I have been doing PW and BWD off and on lately. Each time I do a session, I wind up having my POI tell me the same things ("I like you so much," "You're the most beautiful woman I know," "I want to be with you," "I want to take you out on several dates.") I know that Lanie says that there is no right or wrong way to do PW but I'm wondering if I should switch up what I want my POI to say to me. Ultimately, I want us to date often, for him to to be at my beck and call, and eventually fall for me so deeply that we are in a committed relationship. Should I start visualizing him telling me that he wants me to be his girlfriend even though our communication hasn't been as frequent lately? (I haven't seen him in a few weeks and I initiated contact last time which was last weekend). I'd really like some help with this so any help would be appreciated. Thank you!
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