I read Lanies book and it’s been a week of no contact and I sent that goodbye letter today. I have read other “no contact” books and it says to not contact your ex. Does anyone have some success after doing what she says to do in this book? I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and the break up was over a misunderstanding and he blocked me from his cell phone because I sent too many texts. The blocking happened 2 weeks ago and after running into him a week later at a coffee shop, I tried to message him and found out I was still blocked so I emailed him and he responded but not in a nice way..so I decided to do what Lanie says. Go no contact and then a week later send a goodbye letter. I just want some advice on this or positive stories on if this worked for any of the members out there. Thank you in advance